
I received my B.A. in English Language and Literature from the University of Chicago, and went on to earn my Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology at UCLA, which is consistently ranked among the top programs in the field. For over 25 years, I have worked at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine, providing clinical care and supervision across all of the child and adult anxiety programs, including the Adult Anxiety Outpatient Clinic, Child and Adolescent Outpatient Clinic, Adult OCD Intensive Treatment Program, and Child/Adolescent OCD Intensive Treatment Program. During this time, I’ve worked extensively with individuals, families, and groups.
Although my primary focus has been on anxiety disorders, I am also very experienced in treating conditions that often co-occur with anxiety, such as depression and insomnia. I’ve also developed expertise in treating narcolepsy, with an emphasis on addressing the anxiety-related factors that can exacerbate symptoms.
My work with patients is extremely collaborative. While my clinical orientation is primarily Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), the tools and techniques I use are always tailored to each individual’s needs. Treatment with me isn’t “cookie-cutter” - it’s personalized and grounded in evidence-based approaches. I’ve taught a wide range of therapeutic techniques at the UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine for over two decades. My goal is to help people build skills to better manage their symptoms. I often feel more like a teacher or coach, helping individuals understand and apply empirically validated strategies, such as exposure and response prevention for OCD or interoceptive exposures for panic disorder.
In many instances, people also find it helpful to explore not just their current thoughts (the focus of CBT), but also the broader “stories” they tell themselves about who they are, others, and the world. This wider perspective can deepen self-understanding, foster self-compassion, and strengthen motivation for change. Although listening is a basic expectation of any therapist, many of my patients have shared that they feel truly heard in a way they haven’t experienced elsewhere. My goal is to offer a safe, nonjudgmental space where people can develop skills, insight, and a life that feels both meaningful and good. I work with people in person in the Los Angeles area. I also provide online therapy to patients in California and New York.
| Education | |
| 1996-2001 | Ph.D. University of California, Los Angeles - Clinical Psychology |
| 1990-1994 | B.A. University of Chicago - English Language and Literature |
| Faculty Appointments | |
| 2015-Present | Clinical Instructor, UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine Department of Psychiatry and Biobehavioral Sciences |
| 2014-Present | Psychologist, Family Education Group Intake Assessment Evaluator Adult OCD Intensive Treatment Program UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine |
| 2010-2013 | Attending Clinician, UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine Child/Adolescent OCD Intensive Outpatient Program |
| 2002-2008 | Clinical Instructor, UCLA David Geffen School of Medicine Adult Anxiety Disorders Outpatient Clinic |
| Clinical Experience and Training | |
| 2002-Present | Private Practice, Los Angeles, CA |
| 2000-2003 | UCLA Adult Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder Intensive Treatment Program |
| 2001-2004 | UCLA Childhood OCD, Anxiety, & Tourette's Disorder Program |
| 1997-2002 | UCLA Anxiety Disorder Behavioral Program for Panic Disorder |
| 2000-2001 | UCLA NPI Psychology Intern, Chronic Mental Illness |
| 1998-1999 | UCLA NPI Mood Disorders Clinic |
| 1998-1999 | UCLA NPI Anxiety Disorders Clinic |
| Memberships and Committee Appointments | |
| 1998-present | American Psychological Association |
| 2002-present | International Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder Foundation |
| 2004-present | Association for Behavioral and Cognitive Therapies |
| 2008-present | Anxiety and Depression Association of America |
| Awards & Honors | |
| 2000 | National Research Service Award |
| 1998 | Stanley Sue Award for Outstanding Research |
| 1994 | Phi Beta Kappa |
| Invited Presentations | |
| 2010 | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for OCD. West Los Angeles Veterans' Administration. |
| 2009 | Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Anxiety. Promises Addiction Treatment Center, Malibu, CA. |
Office Interior:

Building Exterior and Map Location:
![]() |
|
![]() |
Anxiety disorders affect approximately 19 million adults in the United States. This makes anxiety disorders about as common as substance use disorders and more common than mood disorders (e.g., depression, bipolar disorder). Anxiety disorders are also among the most common types of psychiatric problems seen in children and adolescents. Anxiety disorders account for approximately 31% of the total mental health care costs. In addition, they are also associated with impaired occupational, social, and marital functioning - as well as with a decrease in overall life satisfaction.
There are several different types of anxiety disorders, but they all share a common theme of excessive fear and dread. Although everyone experiences anxiety from time to time, anxiety disorders distinguish themselves from normal anxiety in that the anxiety that is experienced is too frequent or out of proportion with the actual threat present. In addition, anxiety disorders are often chronic conditions; the anxiety does not simply surround a stressful life situation and resolve once that situation is over (as with normal anxiety). Although anxiety may wax and wane, if left untreated, most anxiety disorders tend to grow progressively worse over time.
Each anxiety disorder has its own distinct features. The primary anxiety disorders are:
In addition to Obsessive
In addition, current research also indicates that Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS) may be linked to panic disorder and respond to similar treatments that are used for panic.
It is not uncommon to have more than one anxiety disorder. In addition, those with anxiety problems may also suffer from depression - sometimes, these feelings of sadness are produced by the way their lives are limited or affected by their anxiety symptoms.
Symptoms of depression include: feelings of sadness, hopelessness, loss of interest in things that were previously enjoyed, changes in appetite or sleep, low energy, difficulty concentrating, and thoughts about life not being worth living. If more than one psychological problem is present, a mental health professional is often needed to determine which diagnosis should be treated first or if the disorders can be treated at the same time
When you are fearful or worried, this can cause you to experience many different bodily sensations associated with anxiety. For more information on this bodily response, see Anxiety/fear and your Body section. Some common physiological symptoms of anxiety are:
In children, anxiety may also be expressed by crying, tantrums, being frozen in place, or shying away from situations. When people experience several of these physical sensations accompanied by a sudden rush of intense fear, this usually means that they are having a panic attack. Most panic attacks peak quickly (within 10 minutes) but can take longer to subside. Panic attacks are also commonly accompanied by the thoughts/fears that one is: “going crazy”,“losing control”, or “having a heart attack”.
Panic attacks can occur in any of the anxiety disorders - panic disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, social anxiety disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, specific phobia, and post
All humans experience anxiety and fear. This is a biologically determined response that is very important to our survival. We probably wouldn't live too long if we did not have any fear -- for example, if we weren't fearful when we see a growling dog or a car speeding toward us. So, the bottom line is that some fear and anxiety is good. However, for people with anxiety disorders, anxiety and fear are experienced too frequently or out of proportion to the realistic danger that is actually present.
Anxiety and fear are actually two very different things. Anxiety is typically what people experience before the “dangerous“ situation is encountered. In other words, anxiety is the way that our body begins to prepare for facing the threat. This type of future orientation of fears is especially clear in Generalized Anxiety Disorder; in this disorder, worries frequently take the form of future oriented “what if ” questions (e.g., “What if you get sick?”, “What if I don't get a good job?,” “What if no one likes me at school?”). This type of anxiety response tends to be more verbal (e.g., people talk a lot about their worries) rather than physiological (e.g., shaking hands, sweating).
However, as people begin to approach (e.g., either in time or location) the situation/object that is feared, they begin to experience a greater physiological anxiety response. Many people speak of “anticipatory anxiety“ or anxiety that occurs in anticipation of approaching the feared situation or object. Anticipatory anxiety can be experienced in any of the anxiety disorders - for example, a person with the contamination type of OCD may experience anticipatory anxiety because they know that the next day they will have to go to some place they perceive as “dirty;“ a person with social anxiety disorder may experience anticipatory anxiety about a class presentation that needs to be given the following week; or a person with panic disorder may experience anticipatory anxiety because they know that tomorrow they will be visiting the same place where they had their first panic attack.
Fear (and panic) are activated when the threat situation is actually encountered (not just anticipated). People in a state of fear experience a very intense and immediate physiological response and their ability to think or talk about the situation is usually very limited. This kind of automatic fear response is designed to be very protective - as it is designed to automatically activate a series of bodily responses that will help you in times of danger. This automatic response is often termed the “fight/flight“ response - because if true danger were present, it allows you to protect yourself and survive by mobilizing your body to either fight the danger or to flee from the dangerous situation. However, in anxiety disorders, panic attacks or fear responses are often activated when there is no real danger present. Panic attacks can occur in any of the anxiety disorders when the feared situation is encountered.
Specifically, when the feared situation is encountered, a branch of your autonomic nervous system, the sympathetic nervous system, activates the fight/flight response. As a result, your body releases two chemicals called adrenalin and noradrenalin into your system. These two chemicals produce many changes in your body such as increased heart rate, respiration, and sweating. All the changes that occur are designed to help you in a truly dangerous situation. However, if there is no danger that is really present (and you do not need to fight or flee), people often experience unpleasant bodily side effects of this protective system. None of these side effects are dangerous but they can be very distressing.
No. Certainly no one would chose to have an anxiety disorder and, likewise, no one would wish these symptoms on someone that they love. It is currently unknown what exactly causes these disorders, but they are likely due to a combination of multiple factors. Two types of anxiety disorders, panic disorder and blood/injury/injection phobia, have been found to be slightly more genetically based than some of the other anxiety disorders. In other words, these two disorders are more likely to “run in families“ than some of the other disorders.
For the other types of anxiety disorders, what seems to be “inherited” is more of a generalized vulnerability. In other words, you are vulnerable to developing an anxiety disorder, but not inclined to develop a specific anxiety disorder. So, in other words, what may be inherited is a biological tendency to have an over-reactive sympathetic nervous system (fight/flight system). This biological tendency combined with early developmental experiences (e.g., what we are taught about the world and how threatening it is influences future perceptions and experiences) and later stressful life experiences, may then determine what type of anxiety disorder develops (or if one develops at all).
Many people are frequently surprised to learn that there are a combination of factors that lead to anxiety disorders because they have heard that these fears “may be due to a chemical imbalance in my brain”. In general, anxiety disorders are determined by various different factors. Current research indicates that there seems to be some genetic contribution in terms of who is more vulnerable to developing an anxiety disorder. However, this is a general genetic vulnerability to developing an anxiety disorder, but not to developing a specific type of anxiety disorder. There appears to be a slightly higher genetic vulnerability for those who develop panic disorder and for those who have blood/injection/injury phobia.
Thus, genetics are involved, but one's genetic vulnerability is only one factor that influences who develops anxiety disorders. Early developmental experiences and important life events have also been found to be very important in the development of anxiety disorders. In addition, recent research indicates that people's behaviors affect the chemicals (or neurotransmitters) in their brains. Therefore, if people already have extensive fears and avoid feared situations, it is no wonder that there may be some differences in the “chemicals” in their brain. It is the chicken and the egg phenomenon, it is unknown which comes first - the distress and related behaviors or the chemical changes. In addition, research shows that it is not just mediations that have the ability to alter brain chemicals, but if people change their behaviors, they can actually also create changes in those same brain chemicals -- even without any medications!
If your child has an anxiety disorder, the most important piece of advice is: Don't blame yourself and don't blame your child. Certainly no one would ever want these symptoms or wish them on someone they love. Anxiety disorders can be especially frustrating if they are accompanied by a lot of avoidance or other “safety“ behaviors (e.g., having a parent or other safely object with them in feared situations, compulsions, etc.). Please try to be patient with your child and remember...if it were so easy to “just stop“ these frustrating behaviors, it would have already happened. Tell your child that you love them despite any anxiety problems. Let them know that even though they may have some worries that don't make sense or some “bad habits,“ they are not a bad person.
It is also often beneficial to educate your child a bit about the problem so that they no longer feel so alone or “crazy“. This discussion should be tailored to your child's age, developmental level, and their concerns or insight about the problem itself. For example, some children with OCD may think that others are just “gross“ for not also washing their hands 10 times before leaving the bathroom; sometimes, children with trichotillomania do not seem to care about the effects of hair pulling on their appearance. In addition, sometimes children may engage in some anxiety related behaviors with only minimal awareness (because these behaviors have become so automatic), so they may not honestly know what behaviors you are referring to (or not be aware of their frequency).
Absolutely. Frequently, those with anxiety disorders alter their lifestyles and those of loved ones due to the “rules“ that their anxiety disorder makes them adhere to. These lifestyle alterations can run the gamut from mild to very severe. For example, a child with a specific phobia of dogs may insist that the family does not go to any parties at people's houses if they own a dog (i.e., relatively minimal life interference), but a child with severe checking OCD may insist that his family return home twice every time they leave the house to check that the front door is really locked (i.e., severe life interference). Thus, even though family members may not share or even understand the fears that are present, they conform to the “rules“ made by the anxiety disorder so that their loved one is not distressed. It is not uncommon for children to become very upset, cry, or have a tantrum if these “rules“ are disregarded.
One of the most common ways that anxiety disorders are identified in children is due to a change in their previous functioning. It is not uncommon for children with anxiety disorders to begin avoiding certain activities or contact with particular objects/people due to their fears. These indicators are often confusing to parents because they frequently involve things that their child formerly enjoyed (such as going to the beach or a playground). Some children will state their fears, but it is probably more common for children to instead make up excuses like “I'm tired“ or “I don't like doing that anymore“ rather than reveal that they are frightened to do certain things or go to specific places. For certain anxiety disorders, such as OCD, the number of avoided things often grows over time and symptoms worsen. Thus, time formerly spent having fun with family and friends is now spent engaging in anxiety related behaviors (e.g., dwelling on the worry, compulsions) or in avoiding things that are feared.
Typically the same treatments are used for children as are used with adults -- with some slight differences. For example, the disorders are explained in ways that they can better understand and a reward system is usually implemented for all their hard work in attempting therapy assignments. Reward systems tend to be especially helpful in keeping younger children on-track, given that the results of therapy are usually not seen for several weeks and children have a tendency to easily give up if they see no immediate benefit. Older children and adolescents may see standard reward systems as being “treated like a baby,“ so they frequently prefer that treatment be conducted in the same way as it is administered with adults or that monetary incentives are instead given.
The most essential element to successful treatment is that the child is self-motivated to change these anxiety related behaviors - and they are not solely in treatment because of parental pressure.
The role of family members usually varies depending on the age of the child. For younger children, more parental involvement is usually necessary (in part because children sometimes have a harder time reporting accurately on their symptoms, therapy assignments, and progress). Adolescents usually prefer to keep their sessions more private and only periodic check-ins with parents are usually implemented.
It is usually very beneficial for the family to have some role in treatment so that they can be further educated about the anxiety disorder and understand the sometimes frustrating symptoms that accompany them. The degree of family involvement usually depends on the child/adolescent and on the family itself. For some families, taking a step back and letting your child take the reins (with the help of their psychologist) in overcoming their symptoms is most helpful.
For some families, it may be beneficial for the parents to know about the treatment plan that has been designed by the psychologist. This is frequently helpful because then they will know where to look for successes and where to not yet expect improvements (until later). If family members are engaged in “helping“ their child with any anxiety related behaviors (e.g., compulsions), they can also learn how to gradually separate themselves from these fear-related behaviors. The biggest role that the family can play is by helping their child to implement the weekly goals that have been set between their child and the psychologist. Because each family is very different and has its own specific needs, you will have to work together with your psychologist to decide how you can best help your family member with their anxiety disorder.
Descriptions of OCD from patients' perspectives
“When I'm doing my homework, I worry about it not being done perfectly. I spend a lot of time making sure my handwriting is perfectly neat for my teacher. I know that other people have sloppy work, but it makes me really uncomfortable if I leave things so that they don't look right. I also have to re-calculate my math problems over and over just to make sure that I didn't make a mistake. But, the worst thing is packing my backpack for the next day of school. I check again and again to make sure I have all the books, folders, pencils, and homework assignments that I need. I know that after I check them once and especially twice that everything must be there, but I can't get rid of this feeling that I might be missing something that I really need. I used to check 15 times exactly. Now, I don't check a specific number of times, but just stop when I 'feel right'. This takes a really long time. I'm really embarrassed about this and I hope that my parents don't know what I'm doing.“
“I'm always afraid that I haven't locked the front door, turned off the stove, or unplugged my curling iron. It's almost like I can't believe my own eyes, like, I know that the curling iron is unplugged but yet I can't help but stare at it for a few minutes saying 'unplugged, unplugged' before walking away. Sometimes, this doesn't even help and I barely drive one block away from my home before I have to turn around to go home and check it again “
“I hate germs and I see them everywhere. I don't know how other people aren't just as bothered by it as I am. When I touch doorknobs or elevator buttons, I feel gross and dirty. I don't want to do anything else with my hands until I wash them or put anti-bacterial lotion on them. If I don't, I feel like I won't be able to get my mind off of it. These things are nasty but what really bothers me are people who are sick or who look sick. Whenever, I see someone sneeze or looking really fatigued, I can't help but wonder if they might have AIDS. I try to avoid them or anything that they have touched. This makes me always on edge at work and gets in the way of me getting things done. If someone sick hands me paperwork, I'll try to let it touch as few things as possible. On these days, I usually stay late and wash my desk and everything on it just in case any AIDS germs got on my things. When I get home, I strip my clothes off and put them in a special bag so that they don't contaminate my other things. I don't feel better until after I've taken a shower. This routine is exhausting.“
“Sometimes when I'm in the car I feel a bump. Even though I didn't see anything I wonder if I might have hit someone. I check all my mirrors and don't see anything on the ground. Then I start to fear that maybe I hit someone and their body is now in the bushes. Sometimes, I get out of the car to check, but so far I haven't found anything. At night, I always watch the news to see if they talk about a hit and run accident that occurred in places where I was driving. Another weird and scary thing has also been happening. Sometimes when I hold my cat, I get a thought ' what if you put your hands around her neck right now and choked her to death?' This thought terrifies me. I love my cat so much and I'd never do anything to hurt her. But, why did I have that thought? Maybe I really want to, or maybe I might one day lose control and actually do it. Even though I love my cat, I try to touch her as little as possible now. I'm afraid I might hurt her.“
“I know this might sound really strange, but I feel contaminated by death. This happened right after I attended a funeral for a friend of the family. I felt like I was losing it and needed to get out of the church. Since then, I've avoided hearing about death and I don't read the newspaper or watch the news. I also avoid contact with people that I know have attended funerals. If they touch me, I try to wash as soon as possible. I've changed my route to work so I don't have to drive by a cemetery. But, if I can't avoid going this way, I roll up my windows and turn off the air conditioning. I try not to look at it and I'll wash my car later that day. I don't know what I'm exactly afraid of maybe I fear being marked for death in some way. All I know is that it makes me terrified and it makes me wash.“
“I grew up in a very religious household. I've always loved going to church and talking to God with prayer. But now, I try to avoid thinking about God because of my thoughts. I keep having blasphemous thoughts and disgusting images about God . I'm afraid to tell anyone because a good person would never think such things. These thoughts pop into my mind most when I'm at church. At first I tried to counter these bad thoughts with good ones, but the thoughts became so scary that now I just try to avoid any place that might trigger these thoughts. I try not to even drive past a church anymore. At night, I still pray but it takes me a long time because of my awful thoughts. I need to keep praying until I can finally get through my prayers without any bad thoughts or images.“
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) affects 3.3 million adults in the United States. OCD also affects 1 - 2 children in every hundred. The age of onset of OCD symptoms is variable with symptoms typically first appearing anytime between preschool to early adulthood. Many people with OCD report that their symptoms wax and wane - for no apparent reason, there are periods of time when their symptoms are better and periods when they are worse. Symptoms typically worsen during stressful periods (e.g., getting laid off from work, getting married, starting school). In addition, it is also fairly common for the type of OCD to change over time - for someone to be bothered by different types of obsessional thoughts in their adolescence than in adulthood. Without treatment, OCD tends to be a chronic condition that generally gets worse over time.
People with OCD experience either obsessions or compulsions - with most people having both obsessions and compulsions. OCD thoughts and behaviors usually cause a significant amount of distress, take up a lot of time, or interfere with a person's work, school, social life, or family relationships.
Obsessions are recurrent, persistent thoughts, images, or impulses that are distressing and intrusive. People with OCD typically try to ignore, suppress, or in some way neutralize the thoughts. Usually people realize that their fears are not realistic or logical but this can vary. Sometimes OCD sufferers know that what they are fearful of can't really come true, but they are still worried. Other times, OCD sufferers are very certain that this illogical fear will really happen. Some examples of common obsessional thoughts are listed below.
Compulsions are repetitive physical behaviors or mental acts that a person feels driven to perform - typically, these compulsions are usually done in an attempt to neutralize or reduce the distress created by the disturbing obsessive thought. Some common compulsions are listed below.
Research indicates that it is not the content of the thoughts themselves that distinguishes people with OCD from those without OCD - rather, it is the frequency of these thoughts and the extreme amount of distress they cause that distinguishes OCD. Most people have thoughts like these from time to time but they just think that the thought was strange and easily let it go, but people with OCD are very distressed by the thoughts and have much more difficulty getting rid of thoughts. Some people with OCD describe it as feeling like having a faulty fire alarm in a building - the alarm keeps going off and making them think that danger is there, even though there really is no fire.
| Aggressive obsessions |
|
The fear that they might harm themselves or others |
“What if I lose control and pick up the knives at the dinner table and stab myself or my child?” |
|
Violent or horrific images |
“I can’t get the image of mutilated bodies out of my head, what’s wrong with me…am I going crazy?” |
|
Fear of blurting out obscenities or insults |
“What if I meet my boyfriend’s parents and in the middle of saying ‘hello’ I accidentally tell his mother I hate what she’s wearing and shout an obscenity at her?" |
|
Fear of harming others due to carelessness |
"What if I hit a pedestrian without realizing it when I was changing the radio station -- I took my eyes off the road for too long...” “What if I left one of the windows open at home and a burglar got in?”
|
| Contamination obsessions |
|
Concern or disgust with bodily waste or secretions (e.g., urine, feces, saliva) |
“What if my pants touched the toilet in the public bathroom, maybe I got feces on them!” |
|
Concern with dirt or germs |
“I hate touching doorknobs or other public things, I feel like they are crawling with bacteria and viruses.” |
|
Excessive concern with household items (e.g., cleansers, solvents) |
“What if my Drano bottle is leaking and my cleaning lady doesn’t see it, touches it, and dies?” |
|
Excessive concern with environmental contaminants (e.g., asbestos, radiation, toxic waste) |
“I won’t go into anyone’s house if they have a cottage cheese ceiling, I think I heard those have asbestos in them and I won’t go near any construction site.” |
|
Excessive concern with animals or insects |
“I guess dogs are nice, but I hate it when they come near me…what if they have fleas and give them to me or what if they lick me -- their tongues have been everywhere. I feel gross when I’m around them.” |
** frequently people with contamination obsessions are fearful that they might get ill or die if they come in contact with a contaminant or that they will accidentally spread the contaminant and others will get sick as a result
| Sexual obsessions |
|
Forbidden or perverse sexual thoughts, images, or impulses |
“I’ve always been a very religious person, but now whenever I see a woman I imagine her naked and in disgusting sexual positions. I feel like I’m committing adultery.” |
|
Excessive concern regarding thoughts about children or incest |
“What if when I hugged my niece, I got a little too close…where exactly was my hand?…oh no, did I just molest her?” |
|
Sexual obsessions regarding homosexuality |
“I’ve always considered myself straight, but the other day I was on the bus and I noticed that I was looking in the direction of another man’s crotch…have I really been lying to myself all this time? Does this mean that I’m really gay?” |
| Hoarding/Saving Obsessions: |
|
Difficulty throwing things away |
“I have boxes and boxes of pictures that my kids drew when they were young. I would like to have more space but if I throw them away I feel like I will lose the memory or a piece of my relationship with them. Plus, they may want them in the future.” “Why should I throw away these empty plastic milk cartons? I know I have a lot of them, but why get rid of something that could be useful - I can use them for spare change, to water plants with….” |
|
Fear of losing important information |
“To get rid of a newspaper, I have to make sure that I have scanned every page for all important articles. I mean what if I miss reading something important, something that could really affect my life or the life of someone I love. I really need to hang on to these papers until I have a chance to go through them all thoroughly.” |
| Religious Obsessions or Scrupulosity: |
|
Concern with sacrilege and blasphemy |
“When I’m in church I keep having the most disturbing thoughts. I can’t get them out of my head. I keep thinking the word ‘hell’ and thinking ‘I really love Satan’…what’s wrong with me?" |
|
Excessive concern with right/wrong or morality |
“I feel like an absolutely awful person. The other day my co-worker asked me if I liked her new shirt. I said ‘yes’ and this was a lie. I can’t get this off of my mind. Now, I’ll always think of myself as a liar.” |
| Obsession with the Need for Symmetry or Exactness: |
|
Need for things to be exactly right or the need to do things until it ‘feels right’ |
“I spend a lot of time arranging my closet. It just doesn’t feel right if all of the shirts aren’t hanging in the same direction and if they are not correctly separated by color and long vs. short sleeves. Sometimes my wife hangs things up in the wrong places and pushes my clothes together. This really bothers me.” |
|
May be associated with magical or superstitious thinking |
“If I accidentally tap one leg, I need to tap the other side. I know it might sound strange, but I fear that if I don’t that something bad will happen to people in my family. Sometimes I also think that if I don’t do the other tap to make it even that it might affect other things too like stories I see on the news…for instance, if I don’t tap the other side, maybe a little girl that was recently abducted will never be returned to her parents.” |
| Miscellaneous Obsessions: |
|
Need to know or remember |
“Maybe I wrote the wrong time down for the meeting with my boss. Maybe I should call her just to check.” “I don’t know if I remember everything that I read in that book chapter, maybe I should read it again just to make sure.” |
|
Fear of not saying just the right thing |
“As a teacher, I need to think really carefully before responding to a student’s question…if I answer with the wrong words or the wrong tone, they may decide to drop out of school.” |
|
Fear of losing things |
“When I was at the store, I opened my purse. I didn’t notice anything, but maybe something fell out…I won’t feel right about this until I check it.” |
|
Intrusive (non-violent) images or sounds |
“I know that most people find the sound of the ocean soothing, but I can’t get this sound out of my head…it’s driving me crazy.” |
|
Colors with special significance |
“I can’t use red or black pen to write my children’s names, this might mean that I really want them to die.” |
|
Superstitious fears |
“When I turn on the water in the sink or use a doorknob, I have to turn it 4 times exactly. There are 4 people in my family, so this is a good number and if I don’t do it 4 times this might mean that something bad will happen to my family.” |
| Somatic Obsessions: |
|
Concern with illness or disease |
“Even though the doctor said I was fine, I can’t get it out of my mind that this small bump on my skin might mean that I really have cancer.” |
|
Excessive concern with a specific body part or an aspect of appearance |
“Although many doctors have told me that I have 20/20 eyesight, I keep worrying that my vision is deteriorating...” |
These compulsions can be present on their own, but they commonly occur in response to having a distressing obsessive thought. Although many compulsive behaviors are commonly linked to certain types of obsessive thoughts, any type of compulsion can be related to any type of obsession.
| Cleaning/Washing Compulsions: |
|
Excessive or ritualized hand washing, bathing, or grooming |
“I never feel like my hands are clean. I need to keep washing them until it feels right. I have washed my hands so much that they are now cracked and dry.”
“I have to always shower in a particular order, top to bottom and I run the soap over each part of my body 3 times. If I lose count or become distracted, I need to start over again to make sure that I’m doing it in the right way.” |
|
Cleaning of household items or other objects |
“I hate it when my brother uses the remote control, he is dirty and I think he puts germs on it. I wipe it with a Wet Wipe before I use it.” “Every time I come home, I dunk my shoes in disinfectant. I think I might have stepped in feces while I was out and I don’t want to bring that in the house.” |
|
Other measures to prevent or remove contact with contaminants |
“No one is allowed in my room. I can never be sure what germs they might bring in there. It even makes me upset when my mom goes in there to put my clean laundry on my bed.” “Sometimes I put sandwich bags on my hands. I feel like they are dirty but I am so tired of washing them. This way I can keep the germs away from my food or anything that I touch without washing.” “Whenever I open a door, I try to either use my elbow or pull my shirt sleeve over my hand to open it. If there are lots of people around I’ll sometimes just lag behind so that someone else will open the door for me…that way I don’t have to touch the disgusting door.” |
| Checking Compulsions: |
|
Checking locks, stoves, appliances |
“Sometimes I check the light in my closet multiple times before leaving. The even more frustrating thing is that sometimes I can’t remember if I’ve checked it or not. Sometimes I just stand there and stare at it for a long time...it’s like I can’t really believe my own eyes.” |
|
Checking that did not harm self or others |
“Sometimes I check my body all over before going into the shower. I think 'what if I really stabbed myself and I didn’t know it'…I need to look around for evidence.” “I frequently have to drive around in circles to check the street and make sure that I didn’t hit anyone without knowing it and they are not bleeding on the side of the road.” “What if I dribbled water on the floor when I washed my hands and now somebody has slipped on it and hurt themselves. I better go back there and check to see if anyone is hurt and wipe up the floor just in case.” |
|
Checking that nothing terrible happened |
“Sometimes I get a bad thought or feeling and I have to call my son to make sure that he is really ok. He says that I am driving him crazy with all the calls, but I can’t help it…I feel like something terrible may have just happened to him.” |
|
Checking for mistakes |
“Even though I’ve looked over my homework problems twice already, I keep feeling like I’ve missed something and I need to look them over again and again.” “I always hand in things late to my boss. I keep thinking that I’ve filled forms out wrong or, worse, that I might have written something bad, like a swear word, on it. I need to keep checking them. When I do turn them in, I have a sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach, that’s why I try to hold on to them for as long as possible.” |
|
Checking tied to somatic obsessions |
“Everyday I need to check my body for any bumps or discolorations that may indicate that I’m really sick. Sometimes I also just sit and focus on how my body is feeling to see if I have any strange sensations that will also alert me to medical problems. I visit my primary care physician a lot but he always tells me that I’m fine.” |
| Repeating Rituals: |
|
Re-reading or re-writing |
“I feel like my homework assignment must look perfect before I turn it in, so I spend a lot of time making sure every letter looks just right. So, lots of times I never finish because it takes so much time to make everything look just right.” “If I’m reading the Bible or something that’s really important to me, I need to re-read it a lot of times. Sometimes I’m worried that I didn’t really understand things and sometimes I need to re-read because the first time I read it, I didn’t have the right feeling when I was doing it.” |
|
Need to repeat routine activities |
“I have to turn the light on and off and walk in and out of doorways until it 'feels right".” |
| Counting Compulsions: |
|
Counting |
“Whenever I leave my bathroom, I need to count the bottles of shampoo that are there and other items in the bathroom before I feel like I can leave.” “Whenever I am walking, I need to count my footsteps. If someone interrupts me I get really upset and I’d like to go back to where I came from and start again.” |
| Ordering/Arranging Compulsions: |
|
Ordering/Arranging |
“I know it doesn’t make any sense, but I don’t feel comfortable unless all of my shirts in my closet are spaced exactly one inch apart. It takes a lot of time to do this.” “Everything in my office has a place and everything needs to be in just the right spot before I feel like I can begin. I hate it when other people use my office, they think that nothing looks wrong, but I feel like they leave it looking like a mess and it takes me a long time to straighten up after them.” |
| Ordering/Arranging Compulsions: |
|
Hoarding/Collecting |
“I avoid throwing things away. It makes me too upset, I never know if I’m making the right decision to get rid of something or not, I mean what if I make a mistake and end up needing something that I’ve thrown out? Sometimes, when I do try to clear things away and throw things out I realize that I never really get rid of much, I just kind of churn things from one pile into another. Everything just seems too special or important to get rid of.” |
| Miscellaneous Compulsions: |
|
Mental rituals |
“Whenever I think of a bad word, I have to counteract that with thinking a good word, so if the word ‘hell’ pops into my mind I have to think ‘heaven’ to make it okay.” “Sometimes I have an image of a person that I really don’t like. Then, I become worried that maybe that means that I might somehow become like that person. To make sure that doesn’t happen, I need to think through a list of names of people that I do like.” |
|
Excessive list-making |
“It seems like I have a list for everything. In fact, I have so many lists that usually I can’t find the list that I may be looking for. If I don’t write lists…shopping lists, places I want to travel to, thoughts that I’ve had, etc…I feel uncomfortable and feel like I’ll forget this important information.” |
|
Need to tell, ask, confess |
“Even though I know that it is probably no big deal, lots of times, I feel like I have to tell my mom about every little thing that I did in case I might have done something wrong…I need to tell her that I was a minute late to class, that I took a cookie out of the cookie jar and ate it, etc.” |
|
Asking reassurance |
“Sometimes I feel like I wouldn’t be able to do anything if I wasn’t able to talk to my dad. I ask him all the time…'are you sure that doing this is really ok, are you sure that I’ll be ok, are you sure that this won’t hurt anyone, etc…”. |
|
Need to touch, tap, or rub |
“Whenever I touch one ear I feel like I need to touch the other side too. This usually happens with lots of things. I feel like if I don’t do the other side too I’ll feel unbalanced in some way.” |
|
Ritualized eating behaviors |
“I know this sounds strange, but I need to eat all of my food in alphabetical order. For instance, first comes the corn, then the potatoes, then the steak. If I don’t eat them in that order, I feel really bad.” “I need to cut up my meat into pieces that are all of equal size. This takes a really long time and my food is usually cold before I can eat it.” |
|
Superstitious behaviors |
“I avoid every crack on the sidewalk. I mean the saying does go ‘step on a crack and break your mothers back’…why take a chance with something so important?” |
Even though there are very effective treatments available for OCD, it frequently goes unrecognized for years. In part, this is sometimes due to people being ashamed of their OCD symptoms and hiding them or making excuses for their “unusual“ behaviors. In children, OCD symptoms may sometimes be mistaken as “behavior problems“ at school or home; this is usually because children (like adults) become very upset when their obsessions are triggered or their compulsions are interrupted - thus, these situations may provoke temper tantrums. For example, a child with contamination fears may become very angry when her brother, who has just been at the “dirty“ park, tries to sit in her (“clean“) chair at home.
Unfortunately, OCD symptoms are sometimes also not correctly diagnosed or treated by professionals. Research indicates that on average, people see 3-4 doctors and spend over 9 years in various treatments before receiving the correct diagnosis or treatment for their symptoms.
The two treatments that have been found to be effective for OCD are medications, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), or a combination of both. The typical medications used for OCD are the serotonin reuptake inhibitors (or SRIs) - there are many different medications in this class (e.g., Prozac, Paxil, Luvox, Zoloft, etc.). Sometimes it is necessary to try several different medications to find the right one that will work for you. However, medications alone rarely eliminate all OCD symptoms and usually many compulsions and avoidances remain. Frequently, symptoms return when the medication is discontinued. For these reasons, medication management for OCD is rarely used alone and it is usually combined with CBT.
Although there are many different types of therapy that exist (e.g., psychoanalytic, psychodynamic, interpersonal, supportive, etc.), only one type of therapy has been found to be effective for OCD - Cognitive-Behavior Therapy or CBT. CBT generally results in a 50-80% reduction in OCD symptoms, and because patients are learning new life skills, these techniques generally do not suffer from the same relapse rates encountered with medications.
CBT for OCD involves educating the individual with OCD as well as important family members about the causes of OCD and the strategies that are helpful as well as harmful in overcoming the disorder. The most effective techniques involve Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP). This involves thinking of all the situations that provoke the obsessions (or worries/fears). The next step is to rank order how difficult it would be to do each of these things (i.e., “exposure“ to the feared situation) without engaging in the typical compulsions or behaviors that are normally used to alleviate the anxiety (i.e., “response prevention“). Usually, the most mild or moderate items are worked on first and the person with OCD will begin to realize that they do have control over their OCD and their anxiety does diminish. When these situations become easier, then the next item on the list is tackled until all situations are confronted.
Many people find it helpful to think about ERP as being similar jumping into a cold swimming pool. Often it is too scary to just jump right into the pool and many people might want to run away. This would be like confronting your worst fears all at once, and this is usually too difficult for most people. However, most people can first try putting their feet in the cold water, then they wait until that feels ok, then they might put their legs in up to their knees and then wait until that feels ok, and so on. Before they know it, they have the same result as just jumping in - it takes a little longer, but is far less scary and eventually they are swimming around in the pool and feel like the water temperature is just fine. This is usually how OCD fears are confronted too - a little at a time, then a little more, etc. In this kind of therapy, the psychologist and patient work together as collaborators to figure out where the right place to start is and what the next steps should be. Patients are also expected to work on these same practice assignments outside of sessions so that they will improve a lot faster and their improvements will generalize outside of the therapist's office to home, work, or school.
It is relatively common for individuals to feel like they can “get by“ with continuing to engage in their compulsive behaviors until their lives are limited to such an extent that the problem can no longer be ignored or tolerated. Until they reach this point, things can be very frustrating for family members, who are likely to be confused and irritated by the symptoms. Although frustrating, this can help you to better understand how terrifying the OCD fears are -- that the OCD sufferer is willing to go to such extremes to adapt their life to avoid contact with the feared situations.
In this type of situation, it is best for family members to become as educated as possible about OCD. This can be a big help to the OCD sufferer because you can help to educate them about their symptoms and help them understand that there are very effective treatments out there that can help. If your family member with OCD is still in denial about their problems despite your efforts to educate them, it is often useful for the family to consult with a psychologist who specializes in OCD for further help with this issue.
Descriptions of panic disorder from patients' perspectives
“My first panic attack occurred during a hectic time at work. I was under a lot of pressure to meet deadlines on a few projects. I was at my desk working as usual when I suddenly felt like I couldn't catch my breath. This feeling was totally out of the blue. I felt like I was going to suffocate and like I was gasping for air. I felt like I was losing control of my body and had this terrifying feeling of being disconnected from reality. The symptoms seemed to go on forever. In between attacks, I fear having another attack and I notice that I'm avoiding situations where I think I might be more likely to panic or where I wouldn't be able to get help from others if I did panic. I notice that this is the first thing that crosses my mind when I'm invited somewhere - I evaluate how this situation may affect having or coping with a panic attack. At first, there were only a few places and activities that I avoided, but the list keeps growing “.
“I'm an actor and my first panic attack occurred after one of many auditions. I wasn't particularly nervous or anxious before the audition and it went fine. But, as I was walking down the street after it, I felt like my heart began to pound really hard. I wondered if something was wrong with me. I started to get really searing pains in my chest. I grabbed my chest and sat down on the curb. People asked me if I was ok. I was sure I was having a heart attack. I went to the doctor and he said I was fine, but the problem didn't stop and in the next few weeks I had a few more attacks like this and I went to the ER. They kept saying I was fine, but how could that be? I felt like maybe they weren't catching it when the problem was happening, so they just didn't know I was having a heart attack. Now, I'm sure that something is wrong with my heart even though they say that it's fine. So, I'm really careful with what I do. I don't exercise anymore or exert myself because I don't want to put a strain on my heart.“
“I've avoided driving now for several years. A few years back I began having panic attacks in the car. My heart was pounding and my chest was aching, but the thing that scared me most was the feeling that I couldn't concentrate, my mind was racing. I felt like I was losing control of my ability to think and going crazy. I gripped the steering wheel really tight and somehow didn't get into an accident. I pulled over to the shoulder until I felt better. At first, I just started planning my driving ahead of time, and wouldn't travel to a place where I didn't know the route well or where I knew there would not be a shoulder, so that I could pull off if I began to lose control again. Eventually the planning became too much and I just stopped driving on freeways. Now, it has gotten to the point where I pretty much avoid driving altogether. It's a real hassle - to me and my family, but I can't take a chance of having another one of those attacks again.“
Panic disorder affects approximately 2.4 million adults in the United States. It usually develops during late adolescence or early adulthood. Panic attacks can occur in any place and at any time. Some people even suffer from nocturnal panic attacks - in other words, they are jolted out of sleep in the middle of a panic attack. Most attacks peak (or reach their worst point) in about 10 minutes, but residual symptoms can last for much longer.
Occasionally, some people experience only a few isolated panic attacks during their lives that never manifest themselves as panic disorder; in other words, they do not have repeated panics or live in fear of having another panic attack. In fact, 14% of people report experiencing an unexpected panic attack within the past year. However, once someone has developed fear of having another panic attack or begins changing their lives or their routines in any way (out of fear of panic), panic disorder usually becomes a more chronic problem.
Left untreated, panic disorder tends to become worse over time. More and more situations and activities are avoided over time (agoraphobia increases) and it is not uncommon for many important life decisions to be dictated by the fear of panic (e.g., whether or not to take a trip where you would need to get on a plane, whether or not to accept a promotion where speaking in front of others is necessary). Sometimes, people become so controlled by their fear of panic that they become completely housebound.
This is still somewhat unclear. However, the current research seems to indicate that people who are vulnerable to developing panic disorder tend to have an over-reactive autonomic nervous system -- the system that controls the fight/flight response that is part of panic (for more information, see Anxiety/Fear and your Body section on this website). It is believed that for many of the anxiety disorders, people are not genetically predisposed to developing a specific anxiety disorder - however, panic has a slightly stronger heritability. Onset of panic attacks usually surrounds stressful life events - this includes both bad stresses (e.g., having a heavy workload at school, getting laid off from work) and good stresses (e.g., getting married).
So, frequently, an over-responsive flight/flight system is unexpectedly set into motion under a time of high stress. This first panic attack tends to be very terrifying for most people and they might then begin to fear the panic attacks themselves. This is what differentiates panic disorder from the other anxiety disorders (where you might also have a panic attack). People with panic disorder begin to fear their own bodily sensations (“fear of fear“) because these are used as cues that another terrifying panic attack may be starting again. Thus, panic is viewed as a phobia of one's own bodily sensations. This differs from other phobias where the feared object can be more easily avoided. For example, if someone has a phobic fear of dogs, then they can run away when they see a dog and feel okay. If someone has a phobia of their own physical sensations, when they begin to notice a sensation that has been linked with panic (e.g., increased heart rate), they become afraid. Naturally, our flight/flight response is then designed to actually increase physical arousal - which is the very thing that people with panic fear. These internal sensations are also less predictable and controllable than other phobic stimuli - making them even more terrifying.
Although people with panic are very sensitive of these internal cues, these are often not consciously processed. For example, just as a person might discover that somehow they drove from one place to another without really thinking about it, this is what also happens when people are processing their bodily sensations. However, because people are aware of their bodily sensations but not explicitly thinking about them, this often accounts for why panic attacks frequently seem to “come out of the blue“. Agoraphobia develops as more and more situations that appear to trigger or affect panic are avoided (e.g., malls, driving, beaches).
Panic attacks are defined by the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-V) as: A discrete period of intense fear or discomfort, that usually comes on suddenly and unexpectedly. They usually peak within 10 minutes. Several of the following physical symptoms and fears are often experienced:
Many people genuinely believe that these attacks mean that they are losing their mind, they are dying, or having a heart attack. It is not uncommon for people to have had visits to their primary care doctor or to the emergency room due to these symptoms.
For individuals with panic disorder, they have recurrent, unexpected panic attacks (as defined above) and frequently:
For people with panic disorder, their initial panic attacks are “out of the blue". However, many people find that, over time, certain situations or activities are more likely to trigger a panic attack. Thus, many people eventually begin restricting their behaviors because they fear that they may have a panic attack if they go to certain places or engage in particular activities. The avoidance is usually even more pronounced if these situations are not only a place that may trigger a panic attack, but also are places/situations where escape may not be easy, help may not be readily available, or if panic in that situation may be particularly embarrassing.
Over time, people with panic often begin to fear certain situations - thinking that these situations might be likely to trigger a panic attack or they don't know how they would cope if a panic attack occurred in that type of situation. When a person begins to avoid situations or endure situations with an extreme level of discomfort, this is called agoraphobia. Common agoraphobic situations are:
In addition, activities that trigger physical sensations may also be avoided such as:
If an individual needs to enter a feared situation, usually they do something that helps to make them feel safer there - for example, insist that someone they trust accompanies them or bringing things with them that help them feel safe (e.g., anxiety medications, cell phone, water bottle, etc.).
It is important to note that panic attacks may occur in any of the anxiety disorders. You may need professional help to determine if you have panic disorder or panic attacks in the context of another anxiety disorder.
The good news is that panic disorder is very treatable. The two treatments that have been proven by research to be effective for panic disorder and agoraphobia are medication and therapy - specifically, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT). The types of medications that have been studied for the treatment of panic disorder are: the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs; Prozac, Paxil, etc.), tricyclic antidepressants, monoamine oxidase inhibitors (MAOIs), and benzodiazepines. Although medications are often quite effective, it is not uncommon for panic attacks to resume once the medication is no longer taken. CBT is often implemented to minimize relapse if the patient decides to go off of medication. Medication and CBT can be combined, but it is often helpful if patients keep their medication regimen stable while engaging in CBT - especially if benzodiazepines are being taken.
The first step in Cognitive-Behavior Therapy (CBT) is education about panic and anxiety; this information is presented, in large part, to correct the misinterpretations of certain bodily sensations as scary or dangerous. Although many of the symptoms may not feel very good, they are actually linked to the fight/flight system that is designed to protect you during times of actual threat. This step is commonly referred to as “cognitive restructuring“ - where individuals learn how to more realistically appraise what is happening in panic and how not to interpret the sensations that they are feeling as being dangerous (e.g., “this feeling means I'm having a heart attack“). In addition, patients are also taught how to catch the common thinking errors that are very common in panic - overestimating the probability of the feared outcome (e.g., “if this feeling happens again, I will crash the car“) and catastrophizing (e.g., “if I fainted during the business meeting, I would never be able to show my face there again“).
In addition, patients are also taught how to breathe correctly; this step is often referred to as “breathing retraining“. This step is taught because the symptoms of hyperventilation often play a role in many panic attacks.
Patients are also guided through interoceptive exposures. This is a fancy term for evaluating what kinds of bodily sensations are feared (or are triggering the panic attacks), and then confronting these sensations in a structured way to learn that they are not really as dangerous as initially perceived. Typically, the types of sensations that are feared are placed on a hierarchy from the least to the most frightening. Then, the sensations are confronted, usually beginning with the least fear provoking sensations.
Finally, for those with agoraphobia, “in vivo“ exposures are also implemented. This involves entering the situations that have been currently avoided (or otherwise endured only when absolutely necessary with extreme distress) due to fear of panic. Like interoceptive exposures, the types of situations are placed on a hierarchy and the least anxiety provoking items are confronted first. Usually, even within one specific situation, there are things that can make that situation easier and harder (e.g., having a companion available, close to home, etc.). These factors that affect the difficulty of the situation are also taken into account when designing exposure assignments. Generally, treatment for panic takes longer if there are many agoraphobic situations. It is important to note that although initial exposures are usually conducted with the psychologist, patients are asked to practice what has been worked on in session at home as well.
Descriptions of specific phobias from patients' perspectives
“I am absolutely terrified by snakes. Just looking at the word makes me cringe. But where I live, you really don't come across snakes so it didn't bother me too much. Don't get me wrong, there where still times when I would be frozen with fear being caught off guard at the sight of plastic snakes in a toy store or at a friend's house when their child played with their toys. I know it doesn't make sense, but hearing the word, seeing it, and even seeing just a toy snake makes my heart race, my hands sweat, fills me with fear, and makes me want to run. I was able to get by with these minor inconveniences and avoid just about any contact with snakes for most of my life. But, now there's not just me to consider. I'm now married to a man who loves hiking, camping, and traveling to places like South America. Needless to say, these are all things that I am terrified to do in case I run into a real snake. I fear being bitten. I fear not being able to move because I'll be so scared. This is really making my husband unhappy that I can't share these things that he loves with him, and it is putting a strain on our relationship. Now, for the first time, I'm feeling like it might actually be necessary to confront my fear of snakes.“
“Last year, I choked on a piece of food and it was terrifying. I couldn't breathe and I just remember frantically trying to motion for others to help me. My dad gave me the Heimlich maneuver and the piece of food came out and I was able to breathe again. Since this incident, I have been terrified of choking again. I cut up food into really small pieces and I avoid eating some foods that I think will be more likely to get caught in my throat. My parents also tell me that I chew excessively - I want to make sure that each bite is completely emulsified before swallowing so that nothing will get stuck. The only foods that I feel really comfortable eating now are things that are already not solid like ice cream and yogurt. Once I did try to eat one of the foods I'm afraid of - pretzels. I hate these because they are dry and because of the shape, I fear that they'll get wedged in my throat. When I did try to eat them, I began to feel like it was really happening again. I couldn't catch my breath and I felt like I was choking but I knew it was different. I was able to take in air whereas before I couldn't-but I still felt like I was suffocating. My friends reassured me and my symptoms went away. But this experience was all I needed to confirm the idea that I need to really be very careful and stay away from certain foods.“
“All my life I have felt very queasy at the sight of blood - mine or anyone else's. When I even hear the word or think about it, my heart starts racing, I start to sweat, and I feel like I'm trembling. I have to be really careful what kinds of movies I go to. If there is any blood in them I start to feel really faint and I need to close my eyes tight until that scene is over. I have actually fainted several times at the sight of real blood or even sometimes just when I imagine it - like when I see my hairdresser in the mirror with her sharp scissors so close to my neck, my veins can't help but imagine the worst and sometimes I've fainted while getting my hair cut. Needless to say, my efforts to avoid seeing blood have really limited me.“
“I've never really liked elevators. It feels like I'm trapped in there. Even as a kid, I remember hating seeing the big mouth of the elevator closing, it felt like it was closing in on me and I'd be stuck in this small box forever. What if it plummeted - like in the movies? What if I got stuck in there and no one knew? I might die from lack of food and water It would make me really nervous when I got into any elevator, my heart would pound and I would become sweaty, but I was able to do it. Of course, I would never take an elevator alone - if I needed to, I would wait for others to go up with me. I would also try to never go up in one without a bottle of water and my cell phone. If I didn't have these, I don't think I'd be able to use one. Although it was really uncomfortable, I got by with this feeling really nervous, but slightly comforted by having my “safety“ items with me counting as each floor went by to my destination. I'd keep reminding myself just a little bit longer and I'd be out of there. But, I just got a job that's unfortunately on one of the top floors. I don't think I can bear having to go up and down in that elevator at least twice a day - probably more. I don't think I could handle the mental exhaustion or even be productive at work in the hour or so before I know I'll have to leave and use the anticipation will build and I wouldn't be able to take it. I don't know what to do. I'm terrified, but I really do want this job.“
It is estimated that specific phobias affect approximately 6.3 million adults in the United States. As previously stated, the different types of phobias tend to have very different peak ages of onset. For example, for those with blood/injury/injection phobias, the onset of the disorder tends to be from age 7 - 9. However, for those with situational phobias, onset usually occurs either in childhood or in early adulthood (mid-20's). Animal and natural environment phobias usually have a childhood onset.
All types of phobias tend to be very chronic conditions. Although specific phobias are very treatable conditions, people with phobias frequently simply avoid the feared object/situation and do not seek treatment unless the phobic fear begins to significantly interfere with their life or daily functioning.
The cause of specific phobias is currently unknown, but it is likely due to a combination of factors. As with the other types of anxiety disorders, specific phobias are likely due to “inheriting“ a nonspecific biological vulnerability to developing an anxiety disorder (but not a specific one) combined with individual life experiences. However, there tends to be a stronger genetic link for those with blood/injury/injection phobia.
Research indicates that phobias tend to fall into 4 different types: blood/injury/injection phobias, animal phobias, natural environment phobias (e.g., heights, water), and situational phobias (e.g., flying, driving, bridges). These classes of phobias have many different characteristics from each other - different peak ages of onset, differences in the likelihood of having other co-occurring psychological problems (e.g., depression), and differences in the likelihood that the phobia “runs in the family“.
In terms of the types of life experiences that may make one vulnerable to developing a phobia, researchers propose that there are several different means by which a person can become “conditioned“ (or learn) to fear a particular object or situation. The different modes of fear acquisition are: direct or traumatic conditioning (i.e., where an individual has personally had a terrifying encounter with the phobic object/situation), vicarious observation (i.e., observing someone else having a terrifying encounter with the phobic object/situation), and informational transmission (i.e., hearing about someone else expressing their fears of or their experience with the phobic object/situation). The impact of these types of aversive learning experiences is often mitigated by any previous good/neutral experiences with these objects/situations - thus, accounting for why people can have the same type of traumatic event but some people may develop a phobia and others do not.
Researchers have also speculated that certain phobias are acquired very quickly because we are biologically prepared to fear these objects or situations. In other words, throughout evolution, it was wise to fear these things (e.g., spiders, snakes, heights), so they became more biologically encoded as fearful objects/situations - thus, we are more vulnerable to developing a phobia to these types of things than to other things (e.g., flowers, rolling hills).
There are several main phobia types:
| Animal type | snakes, spiders, dogs, bees/insects, birds |
| Natural environment | heights (tall buildings, driving in canyons, going up on a ladder), thunderstorms, lightening, water (pool, ocean), darkness |
| Blood / Injection / Injury | getting shots, seeing someone bleeding, having blood tests, seeing blood from one's own cut/scrape |
| Situational | forms of transportation (cars, planes, buses, trains), elevators or other small/enclosed places |
| Miscellaneous | loud noises, costumed characters (clowns), doctors/dentists, vomiting |
Specific phobias have the following characteristics:
1. There is a persistent fear of a specific object or situation that is excessive or unreasonable. This fear is usually triggered by the presence of (or the anticipation of encountering)the feared object/situation.
2. Being in the presence of the feared object/situation almost always produces an immediate and extreme anxiety response. This anxiety response may become so severe that the person has a panic attack (see section on panic disorder for more information on panic attacks). **
3. The person usually recognizes that the fear (or the degree of the fear) is excessive or unreasonable.
4. The phobic situation or being in the presence of the phobic object is avoided or endured with intense anxiety and distress.
5. The avoidance, anxious anticipation, or distress with the feared object/situation significantly interferes with the individual's functioning - school, work, or relationships with family or friends.
Sometimes it may be difficult to differentiate specific phobias from other anxiety disorders - in particular, panic disorder (with or without agoraphobia) or social anxiety disorder. In these cases, an evaluation by an expert is often necessary to determine the diagnosis. In addition, for children, there are certain types of fears that are very age appropriate. For a child to have a phobia of a specific object/situation, it is necessary that they are much more afraid of these objects/situations than other children their age.
** Those with blood/injury/injection phobias are more likely to faint than those with other phobias or other anxiety disorders. Although feeling faint is a common symptom of anxiety in general, it is rare that people actually do faint. However, for those with blood/injury/injection phobia, actual fainting is much more common.
The treatment of choice for specific phobias is Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT). Although some people use medications when entering a phobic situation (e.g., take Xanax when they need to go on a plane), this is only effective in temporarily managing the distress in that situation but does not eliminate fear of that situation or the anticipatory anxiety that often occurs (e.g., anxiety due to anticipation of the situation happening). There has been little research into the effectiveness of pharmacotherapy for phobias or the added benefit of taking medications in addition to engaging in CBT. The need for this kind of research is small because CBT is highly effective.
Depending on the type of specific phobia that exists, there are slight variations in the treatment method that is applied. However, a general outline for CBT for specific phobia is presented below. In CBT, treatment usually begins with education about why the phobia may have developed as well as an explanation of CBT and why it is effective in treating phobic fears. In addition, education about the specific phobic stimulus may be necessary (e.g., not all snakes are poisonous) as well as skills information about that stimulus (e.g., how to correctly handle a snake).
The next step in CBT is usually to identify what types of things make that object/situation easier or harder to confront. For example, for those who fear a specific type of situation like heights, the situation may be more fearful if they are high on a hill vs. high up in a building. For those who fear spiders, the size, the color, and how hairy it is may make a difference in terms of how feared the spider would be. In addition, any other safety behaviors that may make the situation/object less frightening are also taken into account. For example, common “safety behaviors“ are taking a friend with you, water bottles, anxiety medications, etc. This will help you and the psychologist you are working with to create your “fear hierarchy“ - in other words, enable you to rank order from easiest to hardest how difficult certain situations would be. Eventually, individuals begin confronting the feared objects/situations on their fear hierarchy - beginning with the least frightening object/situation.
Cognitive restructuring is also another technique that is very beneficial in treating specific phobias. In this technique, the dangerousness of the object/situation as well as the perceived dangerousness of one's response in this situation (e.g., I'll have a heart attack, I'll embarrass myself) is further explored. Frequently, individuals with specific phobias have certain types of cognitive errors such as overestimating the risk of any real danger that exists (e.g., if I try to pet a dog, I'm 99.9% sure that it will bite me) and catastrophizing the situation (e.g., if I hyperventilate, I will faint in the elevator, use up all the oxygen, and die there).
Treatment for phobias is generally short-term and effective.
Generalized anxiety disorder from patients' perspectives
“My mom always called me a 'worry wart'. Even though she and my dad never really pushed me in school, I'd always worry about doing well and getting all A's. The night before each test, I always had problems falling asleep and when I did it was restless sleep. I worried - about what would be on the exam, if I had studied enough, what if the teacher threw a curve. It maybe would've been ok if my worries were confined to this one area or if they stopped when the exams were all over, but it seemed almost like my mind would search for the next thing to worry about. My friend hadn't called in a while, was she upset with me? What should I be when I grew up and how come I wasn't sure what I wanted to be yet? Did they say it was going to rain on Saturday - oh no, this would ruin our trip to the beach. All my life, my worries seem to have been endless -- if I'm not worried about one thing, my mind just moves on to the next thing to worry about “.
“I spend a lot of time talking to my husband about all of my worries. Sometimes he tells me that he is tired of talking about everything in my life and analyzing it in a million different directions. But I feel like I can't help myself. My heart starts to pound, my hands get clammy, and I sometimes pace around the apartment. Primarily, I worry about the future. I worry that the job that I have is not the right one for me. I worry that maybe I should work more hours so that we can buy a house sooner. I worry that maybe I'm getting too old to have a child My worries will also be triggered by things I see or hear about. Like, if I'm watching a TV show where someone dies, I think about what I would do if my husband suddenly died, how would I get along without him? Maybe we should draw up a will? I think about life without him and worry “
GAD affects approximately 4 million adults in the United States. This disorder is about twice as common in women as in men. GAD tends to come on gradually so it is difficult to determine the onset of the disorder. It usually appears between childhood and middle age, and it is not uncommon for many people to report that they have “always been this way“ or that they have been this way for “as long as I can remember“. GAD tends to be a chronic disorder. Symptoms often wax and wane in concert with periods of increased life stress. Most people with GAD are generally able to function relatively well in life and typically don't avoid many situations; however, they do report that their chronic worrying does significantly impact their enjoyment of their life. However, it is possible for GAD to be very severe and to begin impacting even the most ordinary daily activities.
GAD frequently co-occurs with other anxiety disorders and other psychological difficulties (such as depression and substance abuse).
The answer to this question is currently uncertain. Like many of the other anxiety disorders, it is believed that GAD results, in part, from a genetic vulnerability to develop an anxiety disorder (however, there have been no genes identified that lead specifically to GAD). It is believed that this genetic vulnerability interacts with a person's innate temperament (their natural tendency from birth to be more extraverted, introverted, etc.) and developmental experiences to determine who will develop GAD.
Everybody worries. But, what distinguishes people with GAD from normal worrying is that people with GAD tend to worry about things that are unlikely to happen (see below) and they tend to underestimate their ability to cope if difficult situations do occur. Most people's worries tend to increase when life stressors arise (e.g., car accident, fired from a job, divorce, death of a loved one). However, people with GAD worry even when no real stressor is present; frequently individuals with GAD report that they feel like they are always playing a “what if“ game in their mind always worried “what if“ one thing or another happens.
More specifically, the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-V) specifies the following criteria for GAD.
1. Excessive anxiety, worries, or anticipatory anxiety about several different areas or activities (see below). These types of worries must be predominant (occurring more days than not) for at least 6 months.
2. In addition, individuals with GAD have difficulty controlling the worry and have several physical symptoms associated with anxiety (see general information section of anxiety disorders for common symptoms of anxiety).
3. The worries and/or physical symptoms also cause distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other areas of functioning.
| School/work |
What if there is no one I like in my homeroom next Fall?
This upcoming week is so busy, it seems overwhelming, maybe I can't handle it. What if I don't get all A's this semester? What if I didn't write down all of my homework assignments? |
| Performance |
What if I don't play my best in the basketball game this weekend?
What if I should have put more time and effort into my presentation for work? |
| Minor Details |
What if I said something to my friend that upset her?
What if I should have taken a more advanced math class rather than the one I took? What if I should have attended the other party last weekend - maybe I would have had more fun there? Maybe should have bought the other brand of tuna? |
| Perfectionism |
What if I didn't leave early enough and I won't get to work on time?
What if I made a grammar mistake on that report I gave to my boss? |
| Family issues and finances |
What if my parents got a divorce?
What if we don't have enough money and shouldn't be treating ourselves to this dinner out? |
| The future |
What if I don't chose the right life paths?
What if I die before I get a chance to do everything I want to in life? What if I don't get into a good college or get a good job? |
| Health (self and others) |
What if my husband gets into an accident?
What if I get cancer? |
| Safety |
What if burglars broke into the house?
What if I was kidnapped? What if we go to Disneyland and I get lost and can't find my mom? |
| Things going on in the world |
What if there is an earthquake?
What if terrorists come to my school? |
* Often, evaluation by a professional is needed to help determine whether performance worries are due to GAD or social anxiety disorder (social phobia). Frequently, those with GAD worry primarily about “being the best“ that they can be and the quality of their performance is important to them even if other people wouldn't even know about their successes or failures. However, in social phobia, anxieties are primarily driven by worries about evaluation from others and worries about what others will think about their performance (rather than an intrinsic need to “be the best“ for themselves).
Both medications, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and a combination of the two have been found to be effective for GAD. The most common medications used for GAD are benzodiazepines (these usually provide only short-term relief, but are quick acting) and selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs; these provide longer-term relief but usually take about 3 weeks before they begin to be effective). It is not uncommon for people who take medications to report that it helps to “take the edge off“ of their anxiety, but that they are still left with many worries. These people frequently seek therapy as an adjunct to their medication regimen.
CBT for GAD typically involves the following steps. First, patients are further educated about the function of anxiety, and they are also asked to monitor and record their worries when they occur. This helps to determine what types of worries are present and if they tend to occur more frequently at certain times of the day.
People with GAD are also taught muscle relaxation techniques (e.g., progressive muscle relaxation). This strategy helps to reduce the general muscular tension that often accompanies GAD; in addition, this specific muscle relaxation strategy also helps to actively redirect one's mind from their worries onto more relaxing thoughts.
CBT also teaches cognitive restructuring techniques - or ways to analyze the worries to determine what exactly is feared, if that is a realistic worry or not, and how one would cope in the event that the worst scenario actually happens. In particular, patients are taught how to recognize probability overestimations (e.g., thinking that a bad outcome is much more likely than it really is) and catastrophizing errors (e.g., thinking that there would be no way that they could cope if the worst happened). These types of cognitive “errors“ are very common in GAD. In addition, it is also valuable for patients to explore their beliefs about worry itself - as it is common for some people to believe that worrying prevents bad things from occurring and worrying about one thing may help them from worrying about something else.
In addition to learning how to better relax and look at the reality of their thoughts, “worry exposure“ techniques are also frequently very helpful. In this strategy, certain worry thoughts or scenarios are rehearsed repeatedly in a very structured and specific way. Confronting these fears gives individuals with GAD an opportunity to practice the other skills that they have learned in therapy (e.g., muscle relaxation, cognitive restructuring). Additionally, this technique has an interesting effect - after having these worries repeatedly (in this structured way), when these thoughts later spontaneously arise on their own, they are often accompanied with a far lower level of anxiety.
If there are any situations that are avoided due to worry, patients are also taught how to confront these situations in a gradual, structured way. Additional techniques, such as time management and goal setting are also implemented to help tackle any realistic worries that may be present.
Descriptions of OCD from patients' perspectives
“When I'm doing my homework, I worry about it not being done perfectly. I spend a lot of time making sure my handwriting is perfectly neat for my teacher. I know that other people have sloppy work, but it makes me really uncomfortable if I leave things so that they don't look right. I also have to re-calculate my math problems over and over just to make sure that I didn't make a mistake. But, the worst thing is packing my backpack for the next day of school. I check again and again to make sure I have all the books, folders, pencils, and homework assignments that I need. I know that after I check them once and especially twice that everything must be there, but I can't get rid of this feeling that I might be missing something that I really need. I used to check 15 times exactly. Now, I don't check a specific number of times, but just stop when I 'feel right'. This takes a really long time. I'm really embarrassed about this and I hope that my parents don't know what I'm doing.“
“I'm always afraid that I haven't locked the front door, turned off the stove, or unplugged my curling iron. It's almost like I can't believe my own eyes, like, I know that the curling iron is unplugged but yet I can't help but stare at it for a few minutes saying 'unplugged, unplugged' before walking away. Sometimes, this doesn't even help and I barely drive one block away from my home before I have to turn around to go home and check it again “
“I hate germs and I see them everywhere. I don't know how other people aren't just as bothered by it as I am. When I touch doorknobs or elevator buttons, I feel gross and dirty. I don't want to do anything else with my hands until I wash them or put anti-bacterial lotion on them. If I don't, I feel like I won't be able to get my mind off of it. These things are nasty but what really bothers me are people who are sick or who look sick. Whenever, I see someone sneeze or looking really fatigued, I can't help but wonder if they might have AIDS. I try to avoid them or anything that they have touched. This makes me always on edge at work and gets in the way of me getting things done. If someone sick hands me paperwork, I'll try to let it touch as few things as possible. On these days, I usually stay late and wash my desk and everything on it just in case any AIDS germs got on my things. When I get home, I strip my clothes off and put them in a special bag so that they don't contaminate my other things. I don't feel better until after I've taken a shower. This routine is exhausting.“
“Sometimes when I'm in the car I feel a bump. Even though I didn't see anything I wonder if I might have hit someone. I check all my mirrors and don't see anything on the ground. Then I start to fear that maybe I hit someone and their body is now in the bushes. Sometimes, I get out of the car to check, but so far I haven't found anything. At night, I always watch the news to see if they talk about a hit and run accident that occurred in places where I was driving. Another weird and scary thing has also been happening. Sometimes when I hold my cat, I get a thought ' what if you put your hands around her neck right now and choked her to death?' This thought terrifies me. I love my cat so much and I'd never do anything to hurt her. But, why did I have that thought? Maybe I really want to, or maybe I might one day lose control and actually do it. Even though I love my cat, I try to touch her as little as possible now. I'm afraid I might hurt her.“
“I know this might sound really strange, but I feel contaminated by death. This happened right after I attended a funeral for a friend of the family. I felt like I was losing it and needed to get out of the church. Since then, I've avoided hearing about death and I don't read the newspaper or watch the news. I also avoid contact with people that I know have attended funerals. If they touch me, I try to wash as soon as possible. I've changed my route to work so I don't have to drive by a cemetery. But, if I can't avoid going this way, I roll up my windows and turn off the air conditioning. I try not to look at it and I'll wash my car later that day. I don't know what I'm exactly afraid of maybe I fear being marked for death in some way. All I know is that it makes me terrified and it makes me wash.“
“I grew up in a very religious household. I've always loved going to church and talking to God with prayer. But now, I try to avoid thinking about God because of my thoughts. I keep having blasphemous thoughts and disgusting images about God . I'm afraid to tell anyone because a good person would never think such things. These thoughts pop into my mind most when I'm at church. At first I tried to counter these bad thoughts with good ones, but the thoughts became so scary that now I just try to avoid any place that might trigger these thoughts. I try not to even drive past a church anymore. At night, I still pray but it takes me a long time because of my awful thoughts. I need to keep praying until I can finally get through my prayers without any bad thoughts or images.“
Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) affects 3.3 million adults in the United States. OCD also affects 1 - 2 children in every hundred. The age of onset of OCD symptoms is variable with symptoms typically first appearing anytime between preschool to early adulthood. Many people with OCD report that their symptoms wax and wane - for no apparent reason, there are periods of time when their symptoms are better and periods when they are worse. Symptoms typically worsen during stressful periods (e.g., getting laid off from work, getting married, starting school). In addition, it is also fairly common for the type of OCD to change over time - for someone to be bothered by different types of obsessional thoughts in their adolescence than in adulthood. Without treatment, OCD tends to be a chronic condition that generally gets worse over time.
People with OCD experience either obsessions or compulsions - with most people having both obsessions and compulsions. OCD thoughts and behaviors usually cause a significant amount of distress, take up a lot of time, or interfere with a person's work, school, social life, or family relationships.
Obsessions are recurrent, persistent thoughts, images, or impulses that are distressing and intrusive. People with OCD typically try to ignore, suppress, or in some way neutralize the thoughts. Usually people realize that their fears are not realistic or logical but this can vary. Sometimes OCD sufferers know that what they are fearful of can't really come true, but they are still worried. Other times, OCD sufferers are very certain that this illogical fear will really happen. Some examples of common obsessional thoughts are listed below.
Compulsions are repetitive physical behaviors or mental acts that a person feels driven to perform - typically, these compulsions are usually done in an attempt to neutralize or reduce the distress created by the disturbing obsessive thought. Some common compulsions are listed below.
Research indicates that it is not the content of the thoughts themselves that distinguishes people with OCD from those without OCD - rather, it is the frequency of these thoughts and the extreme amount of distress they cause that distinguishes OCD. Most people have thoughts like these from time to time but they just think that the thought was strange and easily let it go, but people with OCD are very distressed by the thoughts and have much more difficulty getting rid of thoughts. Some people with OCD describe it as feeling like having a faulty fire alarm in a building - the alarm keeps going off and making them think that danger is there, even though there really is no fire.
| Aggressive obsessions |
|
The fear that they might harm themselves or others |
“What if I lose control and pick up the knives at the dinner table and stab myself or my child?” |
|
Violent or horrific images |
“I can’t get the image of mutilated bodies out of my head, what’s wrong with me…am I going crazy?” |
|
Fear of blurting out obscenities or insults |
“What if I meet my boyfriend’s parents and in the middle of saying ‘hello’ I accidentally tell his mother I hate what she’s wearing and shout an obscenity at her?" |
|
Fear of harming others due to carelessness |
"What if I hit a pedestrian without realizing it when I was changing the radio station -- I took my eyes off the road for too long...” “What if I left one of the windows open at home and a burglar got in?”
|
| Contamination obsessions |
|
Concern or disgust with bodily waste or secretions (e.g., urine, feces, saliva) |
“What if my pants touched the toilet in the public bathroom, maybe I got feces on them!” |
|
Concern with dirt or germs |
“I hate touching doorknobs or other public things, I feel like they are crawling with bacteria and viruses.” |
|
Excessive concern with household items (e.g., cleansers, solvents) |
“What if my Drano bottle is leaking and my cleaning lady doesn’t see it, touches it, and dies?” |
|
Excessive concern with environmental contaminants (e.g., asbestos, radiation, toxic waste) |
“I won’t go into anyone’s house if they have a cottage cheese ceiling, I think I heard those have asbestos in them and I won’t go near any construction site.” |
|
Excessive concern with animals or insects |
“I guess dogs are nice, but I hate it when they come near me…what if they have fleas and give them to me or what if they lick me -- their tongues have been everywhere. I feel gross when I’m around them.” |
** frequently people with contamination obsessions are fearful that they might get ill or die if they come in contact with a contaminant or that they will accidentally spread the contaminant and others will get sick as a result
| Sexual obsessions |
|
Forbidden or perverse sexual thoughts, images, or impulses |
“I’ve always been a very religious person, but now whenever I see a woman I imagine her naked and in disgusting sexual positions. I feel like I’m committing adultery.” |
|
Excessive concern regarding thoughts about children or incest |
“What if when I hugged my niece, I got a little too close…where exactly was my hand?…oh no, did I just molest her?” |
|
Sexual obsessions regarding homosexuality |
“I’ve always considered myself straight, but the other day I was on the bus and I noticed that I was looking in the direction of another man’s crotch…have I really been lying to myself all this time? Does this mean that I’m really gay?” |
| Hoarding/Saving Obsessions: |
|
Difficulty throwing things away |
“I have boxes and boxes of pictures that my kids drew when they were young. I would like to have more space but if I throw them away I feel like I will lose the memory or a piece of my relationship with them. Plus, they may want them in the future.” “Why should I throw away these empty plastic milk cartons? I know I have a lot of them, but why get rid of something that could be useful - I can use them for spare change, to water plants with….” |
|
Fear of losing important information |
“To get rid of a newspaper, I have to make sure that I have scanned every page for all important articles. I mean what if I miss reading something important, something that could really affect my life or the life of someone I love. I really need to hang on to these papers until I have a chance to go through them all thoroughly.” |
| Religious Obsessions or Scrupulosity: |
|
Concern with sacrilege and blasphemy |
“When I’m in church I keep having the most disturbing thoughts. I can’t get them out of my head. I keep thinking the word ‘hell’ and thinking ‘I really love Satan’…what’s wrong with me?" |
|
Excessive concern with right/wrong or morality |
“I feel like an absolutely awful person. The other day my co-worker asked me if I liked her new shirt. I said ‘yes’ and this was a lie. I can’t get this off of my mind. Now, I’ll always think of myself as a liar.” |
| Obsession with the Need for Symmetry or Exactness: |
|
Need for things to be exactly right or the need to do things until it ‘feels right’ |
“I spend a lot of time arranging my closet. It just doesn’t feel right if all of the shirts aren’t hanging in the same direction and if they are not correctly separated by color and long vs. short sleeves. Sometimes my wife hangs things up in the wrong places and pushes my clothes together. This really bothers me.” |
|
May be associated with magical or superstitious thinking |
“If I accidentally tap one leg, I need to tap the other side. I know it might sound strange, but I fear that if I don’t that something bad will happen to people in my family. Sometimes I also think that if I don’t do the other tap to make it even that it might affect other things too like stories I see on the news…for instance, if I don’t tap the other side, maybe a little girl that was recently abducted will never be returned to her parents.” |
| Miscellaneous Obsessions: |
|
Need to know or remember |
“Maybe I wrote the wrong time down for the meeting with my boss. Maybe I should call her just to check.” “I don’t know if I remember everything that I read in that book chapter, maybe I should read it again just to make sure.” |
|
Fear of not saying just the right thing |
“As a teacher, I need to think really carefully before responding to a student’s question…if I answer with the wrong words or the wrong tone, they may decide to drop out of school.” |
|
Fear of losing things |
“When I was at the store, I opened my purse. I didn’t notice anything, but maybe something fell out…I won’t feel right about this until I check it.” |
|
Intrusive (non-violent) images or sounds |
“I know that most people find the sound of the ocean soothing, but I can’t get this sound out of my head…it’s driving me crazy.” |
|
Colors with special significance |
“I can’t use red or black pen to write my children’s names, this might mean that I really want them to die.” |
|
Superstitious fears |
“When I turn on the water in the sink or use a doorknob, I have to turn it 4 times exactly. There are 4 people in my family, so this is a good number and if I don’t do it 4 times this might mean that something bad will happen to my family.” |
| Somatic Obsessions: |
|
Concern with illness or disease |
“Even though the doctor said I was fine, I can’t get it out of my mind that this small bump on my skin might mean that I really have cancer.” |
|
Excessive concern with a specific body part or an aspect of appearance |
“Although many doctors have told me that I have 20/20 eyesight, I keep worrying that my vision is deteriorating...” |
These compulsions can be present on their own, but they commonly occur in response to having a distressing obsessive thought. Although many compulsive behaviors are commonly linked to certain types of obsessive thoughts, any type of compulsion can be related to any type of obsession.
| Cleaning/Washing Compulsions: |
|
Excessive or ritualized hand washing, bathing, or grooming |
“I never feel like my hands are clean. I need to keep washing them until it feels right. I have washed my hands so much that they are now cracked and dry.”
“I have to always shower in a particular order, top to bottom and I run the soap over each part of my body 3 times. If I lose count or become distracted, I need to start over again to make sure that I’m doing it in the right way.” |
|
Cleaning of household items or other objects |
“I hate it when my brother uses the remote control, he is dirty and I think he puts germs on it. I wipe it with a Wet Wipe before I use it.” “Every time I come home, I dunk my shoes in disinfectant. I think I might have stepped in feces while I was out and I don’t want to bring that in the house.” |
|
Other measures to prevent or remove contact with contaminants |
“No one is allowed in my room. I can never be sure what germs they might bring in there. It even makes me upset when my mom goes in there to put my clean laundry on my bed.” “Sometimes I put sandwich bags on my hands. I feel like they are dirty but I am so tired of washing them. This way I can keep the germs away from my food or anything that I touch without washing.” “Whenever I open a door, I try to either use my elbow or pull my shirt sleeve over my hand to open it. If there are lots of people around I’ll sometimes just lag behind so that someone else will open the door for me…that way I don’t have to touch the disgusting door.” |
| Checking Compulsions: |
|
Checking locks, stoves, appliances |
“Sometimes I check the light in my closet multiple times before leaving. The even more frustrating thing is that sometimes I can’t remember if I’ve checked it or not. Sometimes I just stand there and stare at it for a long time...it’s like I can’t really believe my own eyes.” |
|
Checking that did not harm self or others |
“Sometimes I check my body all over before going into the shower. I think 'what if I really stabbed myself and I didn’t know it'…I need to look around for evidence.” “I frequently have to drive around in circles to check the street and make sure that I didn’t hit anyone without knowing it and they are not bleeding on the side of the road.” “What if I dribbled water on the floor when I washed my hands and now somebody has slipped on it and hurt themselves. I better go back there and check to see if anyone is hurt and wipe up the floor just in case.” |
|
Checking that nothing terrible happened |
“Sometimes I get a bad thought or feeling and I have to call my son to make sure that he is really ok. He says that I am driving him crazy with all the calls, but I can’t help it…I feel like something terrible may have just happened to him.” |
|
Checking for mistakes |
“Even though I’ve looked over my homework problems twice already, I keep feeling like I’ve missed something and I need to look them over again and again.” “I always hand in things late to my boss. I keep thinking that I’ve filled forms out wrong or, worse, that I might have written something bad, like a swear word, on it. I need to keep checking them. When I do turn them in, I have a sinking feeling in the pit of my stomach, that’s why I try to hold on to them for as long as possible.” |
|
Checking tied to somatic obsessions |
“Everyday I need to check my body for any bumps or discolorations that may indicate that I’m really sick. Sometimes I also just sit and focus on how my body is feeling to see if I have any strange sensations that will also alert me to medical problems. I visit my primary care physician a lot but he always tells me that I’m fine.” |
| Repeating Rituals: |
|
Re-reading or re-writing |
“I feel like my homework assignment must look perfect before I turn it in, so I spend a lot of time making sure every letter looks just right. So, lots of times I never finish because it takes so much time to make everything look just right.” “If I’m reading the Bible or something that’s really important to me, I need to re-read it a lot of times. Sometimes I’m worried that I didn’t really understand things and sometimes I need to re-read because the first time I read it, I didn’t have the right feeling when I was doing it.” |
|
Need to repeat routine activities |
“I have to turn the light on and off and walk in and out of doorways until it 'feels right".” |
| Counting Compulsions: |
|
Counting |
“Whenever I leave my bathroom, I need to count the bottles of shampoo that are there and other items in the bathroom before I feel like I can leave.” “Whenever I am walking, I need to count my footsteps. If someone interrupts me I get really upset and I’d like to go back to where I came from and start again.” |
| Ordering/Arranging Compulsions: |
|
Ordering/Arranging |
“I know it doesn’t make any sense, but I don’t feel comfortable unless all of my shirts in my closet are spaced exactly one inch apart. It takes a lot of time to do this.” “Everything in my office has a place and everything needs to be in just the right spot before I feel like I can begin. I hate it when other people use my office, they think that nothing looks wrong, but I feel like they leave it looking like a mess and it takes me a long time to straighten up after them.” |
| Ordering/Arranging Compulsions: |
|
Hoarding/Collecting |
“I avoid throwing things away. It makes me too upset, I never know if I’m making the right decision to get rid of something or not, I mean what if I make a mistake and end up needing something that I’ve thrown out? Sometimes, when I do try to clear things away and throw things out I realize that I never really get rid of much, I just kind of churn things from one pile into another. Everything just seems too special or important to get rid of.” |
| Miscellaneous Compulsions: |
|
Mental rituals |
“Whenever I think of a bad word, I have to counteract that with thinking a good word, so if the word ‘hell’ pops into my mind I have to think ‘heaven’ to make it okay.” “Sometimes I have an image of a person that I really don’t like. Then, I become worried that maybe that means that I might somehow become like that person. To make sure that doesn’t happen, I need to think through a list of names of people that I do like.” |
|
Excessive list-making |
“It seems like I have a list for everything. In fact, I have so many lists that usually I can’t find the list that I may be looking for. If I don’t write lists…shopping lists, places I want to travel to, thoughts that I’ve had, etc…I feel uncomfortable and feel like I’ll forget this important information.” |
|
Need to tell, ask, confess |
“Even though I know that it is probably no big deal, lots of times, I feel like I have to tell my mom about every little thing that I did in case I might have done something wrong…I need to tell her that I was a minute late to class, that I took a cookie out of the cookie jar and ate it, etc.” |
|
Asking reassurance |
“Sometimes I feel like I wouldn’t be able to do anything if I wasn’t able to talk to my dad. I ask him all the time…'are you sure that doing this is really ok, are you sure that I’ll be ok, are you sure that this won’t hurt anyone, etc…”. |
|
Need to touch, tap, or rub |
“Whenever I touch one ear I feel like I need to touch the other side too. This usually happens with lots of things. I feel like if I don’t do the other side too I’ll feel unbalanced in some way.” |
|
Ritualized eating behaviors |
“I know this sounds strange, but I need to eat all of my food in alphabetical order. For instance, first comes the corn, then the potatoes, then the steak. If I don’t eat them in that order, I feel really bad.” “I need to cut up my meat into pieces that are all of equal size. This takes a really long time and my food is usually cold before I can eat it.” |
|
Superstitious behaviors |
“I avoid every crack on the sidewalk. I mean the saying does go ‘step on a crack and break your mothers back’…why take a chance with something so important?” |
Even though there are very effective treatments available for OCD, it frequently goes unrecognized for years. In part, this is sometimes due to people being ashamed of their OCD symptoms and hiding them or making excuses for their “unusual“ behaviors. In children, OCD symptoms may sometimes be mistaken as “behavior problems“ at school or home; this is usually because children (like adults) become very upset when their obsessions are triggered or their compulsions are interrupted - thus, these situations may provoke temper tantrums. For example, a child with contamination fears may become very angry when her brother, who has just been at the “dirty“ park, tries to sit in her (“clean“) chair at home.
Unfortunately, OCD symptoms are sometimes also not correctly diagnosed or treated by professionals. Research indicates that on average, people see 3-4 doctors and spend over 9 years in various treatments before receiving the correct diagnosis or treatment for their symptoms.
The two treatments that have been found to be effective for OCD are medications, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), or a combination of both. The typical medications used for OCD are the serotonin reuptake inhibitors (or SRIs) - there are many different medications in this class (e.g., Prozac, Paxil, Luvox, Zoloft, etc.). Sometimes it is necessary to try several different medications to find the right one that will work for you. However, medications alone rarely eliminate all OCD symptoms and usually many compulsions and avoidances remain. Frequently, symptoms return when the medication is discontinued. For these reasons, medication management for OCD is rarely used alone and it is usually combined with CBT.
Although there are many different types of therapy that exist (e.g., psychoanalytic, psychodynamic, interpersonal, supportive, etc.), only one type of therapy has been found to be effective for OCD - Cognitive-Behavior Therapy or CBT. CBT generally results in a 50-80% reduction in OCD symptoms, and because patients are learning new life skills, these techniques generally do not suffer from the same relapse rates encountered with medications.
CBT for OCD involves educating the individual with OCD as well as important family members about the causes of OCD and the strategies that are helpful as well as harmful in overcoming the disorder. The most effective techniques involve Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP). This involves thinking of all the situations that provoke the obsessions (or worries/fears). The next step is to rank order how difficult it would be to do each of these things (i.e., “exposure“ to the feared situation) without engaging in the typical compulsions or behaviors that are normally used to alleviate the anxiety (i.e., “response prevention“). Usually, the most mild or moderate items are worked on first and the person with OCD will begin to realize that they do have control over their OCD and their anxiety does diminish. When these situations become easier, then the next item on the list is tackled until all situations are confronted.
Many people find it helpful to think about ERP as being similar jumping into a cold swimming pool. Often it is too scary to just jump right into the pool and many people might want to run away. This would be like confronting your worst fears all at once, and this is usually too difficult for most people. However, most people can first try putting their feet in the cold water, then they wait until that feels ok, then they might put their legs in up to their knees and then wait until that feels ok, and so on. Before they know it, they have the same result as just jumping in - it takes a little longer, but is far less scary and eventually they are swimming around in the pool and feel like the water temperature is just fine. This is usually how OCD fears are confronted too - a little at a time, then a little more, etc. In this kind of therapy, the psychologist and patient work together as collaborators to figure out where the right place to start is and what the next steps should be. Patients are also expected to work on these same practice assignments outside of sessions so that they will improve a lot faster and their improvements will generalize outside of the therapist's office to home, work, or school.
It is relatively common for individuals to feel like they can “get by“ with continuing to engage in their compulsive behaviors until their lives are limited to such an extent that the problem can no longer be ignored or tolerated. Until they reach this point, things can be very frustrating for family members, who are likely to be confused and irritated by the symptoms. Although frustrating, this can help you to better understand how terrifying the OCD fears are -- that the OCD sufferer is willing to go to such extremes to adapt their life to avoid contact with the feared situations.
In this type of situation, it is best for family members to become as educated as possible about OCD. This can be a big help to the OCD sufferer because you can help to educate them about their symptoms and help them understand that there are very effective treatments out there that can help. If your family member with OCD is still in denial about their problems despite your efforts to educate them, it is often useful for the family to consult with a psychologist who specializes in OCD for further help with this issue.
Irritable bowel syndrome from patients' perspectives
“I am terrified that I'm going to go to the bathroom in my pants. Every time I go out with friends, I wait to see them pull up in my driveway, then I rush to the bathroom and try to completely empty myself before going out to the car. After a few years of this habit, my friends are now getting pretty irritated with me for always being so late. Despite these efforts, the second I'm in the car, I feel like I'm going to explode - like I'm going to get diarrhea. I try to focus on other things talking with my friends, fiddling with the radio, but I can't get the thought out of my mind. I feel cramped and bloated, and like I'm going to lose control of my bowels at any moment. Ultimately, I usually have to ask my friend to pull over at the nearest gas station or restaurant so that I can run to the bathroom. Once I get there, nothing much really happens and I sometimes don't even have to go at all. Even when I feel ok, I still sit down on the toilet and try to empty myself because I am terrified of getting into the car and embarking on the drive again. If I ever did poop in my pants, I don't think I could live with the shame I would feel.“
“I absolutely hate going anywhere that I'm not familiar with. Needless to say, this really restricts each day because doing anything spontaneous is close to impossible. There is only one thing on my mind at all times: where are the bathrooms? I generally feel ok in any place that is familiar to me - I know where I can run to if I really need to go, relief will be within reach. But, what if I go somewhere and I can't easily locate a bathroom? What if I really need to use one, but I can't find it fast enough? What if then I have an accident in my pants? So, usually it takes a lot to convince me to go to any place new. I am usually terrified before I go my mind filled with a lot of “what if“ questions about what this new place will be like and what is going to happen there. I'm always careful to bring a spare pair of underwear with me in my purse and a bottle of water that I can pretend that I've spilled on myself if the worst happens. When I get to my new destination, I usually demand that we either valet the car or I'm dropped off while my companion parks. The reason: I want to get inside as fast as possible and survey the area for all the bathrooms. Only then can I calm down and begin to feel somewhat safe.“
It is unknown what causes IBS and currently there is no cure. IBS appears to be due to a combination of different factors - such as having more reactive and sensitive intestines, diet, and general stress level. In addition, current research seems to indicate that one's perceptions and reactions to the bodily sensations themselves may also cause more intense and frequent IBS symptoms.
Although people with IBS have real episodes of gastro-intestinal distress, recent research seems to indicate that the more these unpleasant bodily sensations are feared, the more they are actually likely to occur. Like many physical conditions, how we react to our bodily distress or sensations can have a big effect on subsequent symptoms. Sensations or situations that have previously been associated with IBS attacks may also become feared and avoided. Sometimes, people may fear the IBS sensations so much that they may have a panic attack or their functioning may become so limited due to fear of developing IBS symptoms in particular situations that they may develop agoraphobia.
IBS is a medical disorder characterized by intestinal problems. It is more likely to develop in those under age 35 and it appears to run in families. IBS also appears to be more common in those who suffer from panic disorder.
Some symptoms of IBS include: abdominal pain, gas, cramps, constipation, and diarrhea. Although some individual's IBS symptoms are characterized by constipation or diarrhea, it is not uncommon for people to alternate between having bouts of constipation and diarrhea. Symptoms tend to wax and wane, and, although some people tend to have some symptoms that are more characteristic of their attacks, a different constellation of symptoms can be present in each attack.
For some, IBS symptoms are nothing more than a minor irritation, but for others it can severely limit their functioning. Most people are able to get adequate control over their symptoms through a combination of medications, diet, and methods to reduce stress.
Although there are many things about IBS that are still unknown, it is clear that individuals who find means to reduce their stress usually experience a reduction in their IBS symptoms. It is not clear why this effect happens, but it may be because stress affects the movement of the intestines or stress influences the way people perceive the pain or sensations in their intestines.
This response is not unique - as many medical and physical problems are known to be exacerbated by stress. Current research appears to indicate that IBS is a medical problem that can be exacerbated by one's reactions to the IBS symptoms themselves. Anxiety responses and our “fight/flight“ fear system is known to produce intense physical sensations. Therefore, if you have anxiety or fear about certain IBS symptoms, this likely has the frustrating effect of exacerbating the very IBS symptoms you fear. Typically, not only the sensations but also the situations/places associated with IBS attacks have the ability to elicit even more IBS sensations.
IBS should first be diagnosed by a medical doctor; tests are usually given to exclude other medical problems before the diagnosis of IBS is given. Medical doctors then typically prescribe some changes in diet or medications to help alleviate the physical symptoms. As previously described, general methods to reduce life stress are also very helpful in alleviating symptoms. Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is a type of treatment that has been scientifically validated as being very beneficial for relieving general stress. In CBT, individuals examine the way they perceive and cope with stressful events as well as learn general relaxation techniques.
In addition, although general CBT techniques are likely to help with lowering overall stress level (and, thus, improve IBS symptoms), amendments to traditional CBT are currently being investigated as being especially effective in treating IBS. This type of treatment will be described below. It is thought to be of particular benefit to those who are very anxious about their IBS symptoms and who limit or change their daily routine in any way to accommodate the IBS.
The new treatment being developed for IBS (Craske & DeCola) is very similar to a CBT treatment that has already been found to be very effective for panic disorder. IBS has many similarities to panic disorder, and, indeed, the two disorders often co-occur.
The focus of CBT for IBS involves learning how to change one's reactions to internal physical sensations. By reducing one's anxiety or fear response to these symptoms, the sensations are more likely to subside and to appear less frequently. Treatment usually begins with first monitoring the sensations themselves so it is clearer what sensations are strongest in IBS attacks, where they tend to occur, what thoughts are present during attacks, behaviors in response to the sensations (e.g., running to the bathroom), etc.
While gaining more information about the IBS attacks, “attentional training“ is also taught. In attentional training, an individual learns to have better control over the tendency to hyper-focus on disturbing physical sensations, and learns how to be able to redirect attention to other things (rather than having exclusive focus on bodily sensations). This technique can often help people to moderate the intensity of the sensations that they experience.
In addition, thoughts that people have during IBS attacks tend to further exacerbate the fear response - thereby, increasing the IBS symptoms. For example, fearful thoughts such as “if I don't go to the bathroom immediately, I'll have an accident“ will escalate one's physiological fear response and increase the IBS sensations themselves. In particular, there is a tendency to over-estimate the risk of the worst case scenario happening (“If I have symptoms in a strange place, I'm sure I won't be able to find a bathroom in time and will poop my pants“) and catastrophize the consequences (“Everyone at the meeting will know if I pass gas, I'll never be able to show my face there again“). Therefore, IBS sufferers are taught how to analyze their thoughts and how to realistically examine them.
Finally, techniques are taught where IBS sufferers learn that although the sensations are uncomfortable they can be tolerated and managed. This is typically taught through a series of “interoceptive exposures“ - which is a fancy term for intentionally having the feared sensations and learning how to cope with them better, tolerate them more, and disprove the fearful thoughts associated with these sensations (e.g., “if I have this sensation, I need to go to the bathroom immediately or else“). These types of exposures are conducted in a very gradual way - beginning with the types of sensations least feared and working toward the most feared sensations.
After the interoceptive exposures have been mastered, individuals are then taught how to gradually reintroduce themselves to the situations that have been avoided due to fear of having IBS symptoms or not being able to cope with the symptoms if they developed in a particular place or context (e.g., the beach, going to crowded places, standing in lines, etc.). In addition, an assessment is made of “safety signals“ or things that a person usually needs to have with them or things that they feel they need to do to help them feel safer in these feared situations (e.g., scanning each new place immediately for bathrooms, going to places only with very trusted friends, carrying water bottles with them, etc.). Gradually, the IBS sufferer is taught how to eliminate these “safety signals“ and still function and cope with their sensations in these situations.
Body dysmorphic disorder from patients' perspectives
“When I walk down the street I pay a lot of attention to the way men react to me. I keep looking at them to see if they will look at me. If they do look and give me a little smile, this makes me feel really good. It makes me feel like I really do look ok, I am attractive. But, if the guy doesn't look at me, I feel crushed. I feel like the ugliest person in the world. Of course he didn't look at me he noticed my big nose. Even though lots of guys might give me positive attention, it's always like the last one means the most. Even if just one doesn't give me the response I want, I feel like the day is ruined.“
“I used to have the most perfect skin, but then one day I started getting pimples. In the past, I would have probably thought it was not a really big deal. But, I couldn't get my mind off of it. Every time I passed a mirror or a window, I would glance in it to see my reflection and to see how bad the pimples made me look. I would pick at them to try to make them better, but I only succeeded in making them red and irritated. It looked even worse. I started buying every skin cream there was to try to fix my skin. Despite all my efforts, my skin just seemed to get even worse and more pimples appeared. I started tanning myself - thinking that bronze skin would make my blemishes better. Now, after years of tanning, I feel like I have made my skin even worse and it looks really old now. I've ruined it. Everyone knows that good skin makes someone's face. When I'm walking down the street or talking to someone, I can barely concentrate on what I'm doing because I'm so focused on their skin and how it is so much better than mine. Sometimes I feel suicidal. If my skin were only like it used to be, then I could continue on with life “
“My dad is practically bald, so I've always been a little worried about what would happen if I lost my hair like he has. Even though everyone tells me that I have a pretty thick head of hair, I think that they just don't notice what I've become pretty good at covering up - my hair is falling out and I'm going bald. One day, I was in the mirror combing my hair as usual, and I noticed a few hairs came out. This prompted me to more thoroughly inspect my hair, and what I found horrified me. I was certain that my hairline had receded. Since I made this discovery, I now spend about 40 minutes in the mirror everyday. I check to see if there has been any change from the previous day and if any more hair appears to have fallen out. I am really self-conscious now, and I always wear a baseball cap when I go out. I don't really like the dating scene anymore because I don't feel comfortable going to a bar to meet women wearing a baseball cap, but I can't go outside of the house without one - so I'm stuck. Plus, what woman would want a guy who is losing their hair like me? If I absolutely need to go out without my cap, like for a job interview, I spend hours styling my hair so that my hair loss is not noticeable. Then, I keep touching my hair to make sure that it is still in place. I am miserable.“
Approximately 5 million people in the United States have Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD) or dysmorphophobia. It is possible that this number may actually be too low because there are many people who have this disorder who go undetected. BDD is equally as common in women as in men.
It is very common for those with BDD to be very ashamed about their worries and to not reveal them to even their closest friends or family members. Many BDD suffers feel like all the reasons for things going wrong in their lives is due to their appearance and the idea that they “look too ugly“ for things to go right for them in their career or relationships. People with BDD frequently seek dermatological and cosmetic procedures, hoping that this will improve their concern with their appearance.
The onset of BDD is frequently in adolescence, and without intervention BDD symptoms tend to be chronic and persistent. BDD frequently interferes with an individual's ability to work and have relationships. People who suffer from BDD also commonly experience depression and social anxiety.
The answer to this question is unknown. Currently, it is believed that BDD is caused by a biological vulnerability that is triggered during stressful life circumstances (e.g., adolescence). It is also believed that social and early developmental factors may also play a role in determining who is most vulnerable to developing BDD.
Although everyone has aspects of their body or their appearance that they wish were different, for people with BDD these thoughts cause them extreme distress and they have trouble dismissing these thoughts. People with BDD perceive their appearance (or an aspect of their appearance) as being very flawed and perhaps even ugly or repellant to others. The focus of distress can be any aspect of one's appearance, but the five most common areas that are focused on are: skin, hair, nose, eyes, and legs/knees. Sometimes people with BDD only have one aspect of their appearance that distresses them, but it is very common to be concerned with several different features.
Sometimes, there may be a minor flaw that exists (e.g., a scar, mark from having had the chicken pox, minor acne, etc.), but the distress over this minor imperfection greatly exceeds what most other individuals would experience if they had this same flaw. Frequently others see nothing wrong with the way the person with BDD looks, and this can be even more frustrating to the BDD sufferer because no one can understand why they are so distressed. Frequently, people with BDD may be passed off as just being vain or superficial.
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-V) requires the following criteria for a diagnosis of BDD:
1. Preoccupation with a perceived defect in appearance (or excessive concern about an actual minor flaw in appearance)
2. The individual has performed repetitive behaviors (e.g., mirror checking, reassurance seeking) or mental acts (e.g., comparing appearance to others) in response to appearance concerns.
3. This preoccupation with appearance causes significant distress or impairment in functioning
Thus, people with BDD are preoccupied by a perceived defect in their appearance and they frequently spend a lot of time each day thinking about or trying to alter their appearance flaws. In addition, BDD sufferers frequently alter their behaviors in many ways as a result of their worries. These behaviors often occupy a significant amount of time and greatly interfere with daily functioning. For example, they may:
Those with BDD frequently feel anxious about their appearance and may feel very depressed. Sometimes the depression stemming from the anguish about one's appearance causes some people to consider or to actually attempt suicide.
BDD can be well controlled with certain types of medications and with therapy. The kind of medications that appear to be most effective are the serotonin reuptake inhibitors (or SRIs). The type of therapy that has proven to be most effective for BDD is Cognitive-Behavior Therapy (or CBT). Other types of therapy (e.g., psychoanalytic, psychodynamic, etc.) have not been shown to be effective for those who suffer from BDD.
CBT for BDD usually involves using the following techniques. In initial sessions, patients are educated about BDD and are taught how to monitor their thoughts and BDD related behaviors. Next, patients are shown how their thoughts, behaviors, and feelings all relate to each other, and are taught a technique commonly referred to as “cognitive restructuring“. In this technique, patients are taught how to analyze their thoughts and how to better determine when their thoughts may have errors or may be unrealistic. Although everyone tends to have thinking “errors“ at some time, certain types of errors tend to predominate in BDD. For example, BDD patients frequently engage in “mind reading“ (e.g., “I bet that person isn't talking to me because they think I look too ugly.“).
In CBT, patients are also asked to work on assignments to directly confront their fears. Basically, patients make a list of the different situations that they currently avoid or that they might have extreme difficulty doing if they didn't engage in their BDD rituals (e.g., comparing self to others, putting a lot of make-up on, seeking reassurance from others, etc.). Next, these situations are ordered in terms of their difficulty level. Then, beginning with the least anxiety provoking items, patients are then taught how to begin confronting these situations that they fear. This is frequently referred to as “exposure“ to the feared situation. Usually, patients first work on these assignments with their therapist, but then they are later asked to work on them at home to make sure that their successes in the psychologist's office generalize to their functioning at home (as well as work, school, and social life).
The first-line treatment approach for narcolepsy is medication. However, even after treatment with medication, many people continue to experience residual symptoms. Most people can significantly benefit from additional nonpharmacological management of symptoms, including sleep hygiene and CBT techniques, addressing the anxiety and mood-related symptoms that often accompany this disorder.
Research has shown that individuals with narcolepsy are very interested in learning additional methods to manage symptoms outside of pharmacological interventions - with up to 85% of people with narcolepsy expressing at least some interest in learning other interventions. Many people are not exposed to the full array of different methods they might find helpful in managing narcolepsy.
Due to this lack of exposure, I’ve written a comprehensive book detailing these treatment strategies. This book is written for all audiences. It’s helpful to the individual with narcolepsy and also their families.
The book is available at Amazon.
In addition, those who live in California or New York can reach out to me for individualized help with these treatment techniques and tools. For those residing outside of the states I’m licensed in, you can share this book with your treatment provider for a more comprehensive understanding and treatment approach to your symptoms.
Skin Picking from Patients' Perspectives
“Usually, I'm not even aware that I've been picking my skin until after it is over I sit down in front of the TV and it usually just starts with touching my feet. Then I feel a rough patch or a little piece of skin that feels “extra“ and without really thinking about it, I pull it off and pick at the skin until it feels smooth again. I continue watching TV and zone out. Then, usually something breaks the “spell“ like my mom or brother coming into the room. I look at my foot and notice that it looks all red and raw. I'm now embarrassed to go swimming, wear sandals, or do anything where other people will see my feet and what I've done to them yet I can't seem to stop this nightly ritual.“
“I now notice that I usually pick when I feeling really overwhelmed when I'm behind a few reports at work and I feel like my boss is breathing down my neck. When I get home, I have trouble letting go of the day. I should have accomplished more where did all the time go I'll need to work even harder tomorrow to catch up. I start feeling jittery and nervous as I'm sitting on my sofa reviewing my day. The only thing that helps me let go is when I am able to move my focus to my skin. It starts innocently enough I'm thinking about my day as I'm touching my face and feeling how smooth it is. Then, I'll come across a blemish, something that feels wrong and upsets the smoothness of my face. I scratch at it with my fingers until it feels smoother, this can take a while because sometimes one pick makes it rougher and a few more picks are needed to make it smooth. Once this is accomplished, my fingers trail on to the next part of my face. Another bump. Smooth it out. It hurts but also feels good. Like a search and destroy mission. My day fades away “.
It is unknown what causes skin picking. However, like other psychological difficulties, it is likely due to a combination of many factors, including biological as well as life experience and stressors.
To date, there has been very little research into “neurotic excoriation“ or skin picking. Skin picking is currently not classified as a separate disorder in its own right but is rather classified in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-V) as an Impulse Control Disorder, Not Otherwise Specified. Trichotillomania (i.e., hair pulling) is also currently classified as an impulse control disorder, and skin picking appears to have many features in common with this disorder as well as with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
Most people pick their skin when they are alone. Some people appear to be more aware of their picking whereas others seem to do it completely automatically. People can pick the skin anywhere on their bodies but the most common areas tend to be the face, upper back, and chest. Frequently, people primarily pick blemishes, pimples, bumps, blackheads, or any sores. Some people report that in the moment it feels good to pick and they have a sense of relief when they are picking, but, afterward, most people are very distressed at the damage they have done to their skin. People will usually try to hide the damage that they have done to their skin from others.
Frequently, it is often necessary to have a professional evaluation to determine if skin picking is the result of an impulse control problem or is simply a symptom of another problem like Body Dysmorphic Disorder or Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder.
As previously indicated, the treatment for skin picking will depend on if it is the result of an impulse control problem, Body Dysmorphic Disorder, or Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder. Obviously, if the causes of the skin picking are due to BDD or OCD, treatment is implemented for those disorders (please see sections on this website for these disorders). However, if the skin picking is an impulse control problem, the treatment of choice is usually very similar to what is implemented for those with trichotillomania (i.e., hair pulling - also an impulse control disorder).
Both medications as well as Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) seem to be effective for skin picking. Generally, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are tried first, but then other drug classes (such as tricyclics or dopamine blockers) or combinations of medications might be tried to find the ideal medication. People respond very differently to each medication, so it is unfortunately a trial-and-error process to find the right medication or medications.
For most people with skin picking, a combination of medications and CBT are often necessary to help them fight the urges to pick. However, if a person prefers one treatment to another, it is usually permissible to try out the one treatment alone, but, if that is ineffective, to then augment the current treatment (whether that is medications or CBT) by adding the other treatment.
CBT for skin picking involves several steps - with the most integral one being the steps of “habit reversal“. In habit reversal, the first step is typically awareness training. This is a fancy term for the individual being taught how to monitor their behaviors. This is frequently very helpful in determining which situations a person is most likely to pick, what environmental or emotional triggers may initiate picking, and what types of situations produce the strongest urge to pick. Frequently, people find that they pick in some situations that they were not really aware of or they are surprised to find that their picking is limited to just a few types of situations. Sometimes, this basic intervention is successful in helping people substantially reduce their skin picking.
In addition, people with skin picking are also taught how to monitor the steps in their “behavioral chain“ - in other words, learning what the first behavior is that leads to skin picking. For example, someone might notice that the thing that first triggers their picking is a feeling of frustration, which then leads to leaning their head on their hand, then feeling their face, and eventually leads to picking a blemish that is found.
Once they are aware of when the picking occurs, individuals are then taught a competing response. In other words, they are taught how to engage in another behavior that prevents them from picking their skin. They are taught to engage in this response until the urge to do the picking decreases. For example, if the urge to pick arises when they are in bed at night reading a book, they are taught the competing response of gripping the edges of the book hard until the urge passes. Different competing behavioral responses can be designated for different situations.
In addition, many people with impulses to pick find learning relaxation techniques to be very helpful. Techniques such as breathing retraining and progressive muscle relaxation often help to control the distressing emotions and general stress level that led to the picking in the first place. When real stressors exist, it is often helpful to engage in problem solving techniques to explore additional ways of better coping with these life stressors. In addition, using techniques to analyze daily thoughts and stresses are often a very helpful adjunct to habit reversal - these techniques help people better deal with the stresses of life so that they are less likely to resort to skin picking to help relieve any stresses that occur in the future.
In addition, it is often helpful for people to write a list of all the ways in which skin picking has caused them any inconvenience or embarrassment and to keep this list with them. Many people also find that rewards help to keep them motivated with treatment. First, rewards are given for successfully reducing and then eliminating skin picking.
Trichotillomania from Patients' Perspectives
“Usually, I'm not even aware that I've been pulling my hair until after it is over I look at my school books and find hairs all over them. Now I realize that doing my homework usually starts out in an ordinary way, but if I come across a problem that I can't easily figure out, I usually rest my head on my hand out of frustration. Before, I used to not notice that this was also the time when my other hand would start to trail toward my head. My fingers would wind and twirl around my hair. I would zone out and relax a little. Then usually something would break the “spell“ like my mom or sister coming into the room. I'd quickly sit up straight. I would always be surprised at the number of hairs on my book - how long had I been at it? I would quickly swipe the hairs onto the floor - ashamed to have others know what I was doing.“
“I now notice that I usually pull when I feeling really overwhelmed when I'm behind a few reports at work and I feel like my boss is breathing down my neck. When I get home, I have trouble letting go of the day. I should have accomplished more where did all the time go I'll need to work even harder tomorrow to catch up. I start feeling jittery and nervous as I'm sitting on my sofa reviewing my day. The only thing that helps me let go is when I am able to move my focus to my hair. It starts innocently enough I'm thinking about my day as I'm stroking my hair and feeling its soft texture. Then, I'll come across one that feels wrong, it's wiry. I isolate it as best I can, and tug it out. When I look at it in my fingers, I feel this sense of accomplishment that I have eliminated this rogue hair from my head. I put my hand back in my hair trying to see if there are any more in there. Got another. It feels good. Like a search and destroy mission. My day fades away “.
There has been little research into how many people suffer from trichotillomania. However, it appears that about 2-3% of adults in the United States may suffer from this problem. It seems that more women than men may suffer from this problem, but this is also inconclusive since women are more likely than men to seek treatment. In addition, for men it is often easier to hide the problem (e.g., shave if they pull facial hair, blame patchy hair on going bald, etc.).
The two most common age ranges for people to develop trichotillomania are between 11 - 15 and 6 - 10 years old. Although many people report not knowing why the onset occurred, others are able to link the onset of their trichotillomania with a stressful time in their life. Because many people are embarrassed to reveal to others that they pull their hair and because pulling is often done in private, if you notice hair loss in your child, the first step should be to take them to a medical doctor to rule out the existence of a dermatological problem.
It is unknown what causes trichotillomania. However, like other psychological difficulties, it is likely due to a combination of many factors, including biological as well as life experience and stressors.
It is not uncommon for people with trichotillomania to report having family members who also pull their hair. However, while it is possible that genetics play some role in determining who develops trichotillomania, research studies not have found hair pulling to “run in families“.
Most people pull their hair when they are alone. Some are “automatic“ pullers - they pull when their attention is focused elsewhere (usually on another activity). Others are “focused“ pullers where their attention is totally focused on the pulling itself. It is not uncommon for some people to be a mix of the two - with some automatic and some focused pulling.
Common areas where hairs are pulled from include: scalp, eyelashes, eyebrows, pubic area, arms, and legs. Sometimes, people select hairs based on certain characteristics such as their color, texture, location, or thickness. Many people report that it “feels good“ to pull their hair out - sometimes giving them relief from life stresses or helping them to deal with other emotions (such as being angry, anxious, tense, or bored). Many people also report that the sensations of pulling out their hair or their “achievement“ at pulling out certain types of hairs gives them a sense of satisfaction. In addition to having certain rituals for what types of hairs are pulled and how they are pulled, it is also common to have a ritual for what to do with the hair once it has been pulled out (e.g., bite on hair bulb, save it, etc.). In addition, people frequently try to hide the damage they have done to themselves using various different methods (e.g., wigs, “spray on“ hair, eye glasses, false eyelashes, shaving head).
Although many people report trying methods to stop pulling their hair, trichotillomania tends to be a chronic problem that does not remit without treatment. Some people tend to pull hairs in the same area throughout the course of the problem, while others “add“ new places to pull hairs from. However, it seems that once an area has been a “favorite“ place to pull from, people rarely completely discontinue pulling from that area.
Currently, Trichotillomania is categorized in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-V), as an impulse control disorder. However, trichotillomania has many features in common with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder, so many consider it to be an Obsessive-Compulsive Spectrum Disorder.
According to the DSM-V, the criteria for trichotillomania are the following:
1. Recurrent hair pulling, resulting in noticeable hair loss.
2. Having a sense of tension before pulling out the hair (or when the urge to pull is resisted).
3. Having a sense of satisfaction, pleasure, or relief after pulling the hair out.
4. The hair pulling causes significant distress or impairment in the person's life.
As there is more and more research on trichotillomania, it seems that there are some problems with the criteria requiring tension before pulling and relief or gratification afterward -- many people who pull their hair do not experience these emotions. Therefore, some people believe that the criteria itself should be changed to just include the first criterion -- recurrent pulling out of one's hair.
** Professional evaluation may be necessary to differentiate Trichotillomania from Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) or Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD). Typically, those with OCD or BDD do not experience gratification from the hair pulling itself, and the pulling is usually accompanied by continual obsessive thoughts. In OCD and BDD, pulling is usually a response to try to calm the anxiety created by these disturbing thoughts.
Both medications as well as therapy have been found to be effective for trichotillomania. Generally, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are tried first, but then other drug classes (such as tricyclics or dopamine blockers) or combinations of medications might be tried to find the ideal medication. People respond very differently to each medication, so it is unfortunately a trial-and-error process to find the right medication or medications.
Only one type of therapy has been scientifically found to be effective for Trichotillomania -- Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT). For most people with hair pulling, a combination of medications and CBT are often necessary to help them fight the urges to pull.
CBT for hair pulling involves several steps - with the most integral one being the steps of “habit reversal“. In habit reversal, the first step is typically awareness training. This is a fancy term for the individual being taught how to monitor their behaviors. This is frequently very helpful in determining which situations a person is most likely to pull, what environmental or emotional triggers may initiate pulling, and what types of situations produce the strongest urge to pull. Frequently, people find that they pull in some situations that they were not really aware of or they are surprised to find that their pulling is limited to just a few types of situations. On occasion, people might even be asked to save and bring in their pulled hairs as another form of monitoring. Sometimes, this basic intervention is successful in helping people substantially reduce their hair pulling.
In addition, people with trichotillomania are also taught how to monitor the steps in their “behavioral chain“ - in other words, learning what the first behavior is that leads to hair pulling. For example, someone might notice that the thing that first triggers their pulling is a feeling of frustration, which then leads to leaning their head on their hand, then twirling their hair, and eventually leads to pulling out a strand of hair.
Once they are aware of when the pulling occurs, people with trichotillomania are then taught a competing response. In other words, they are taught how to engage in another behavior that prevents them from pulling their hair. They are taught to engage in this response until the urge to do the pulling decreases. For example, if the urge to pull arises in the car, people are taught the competing response of gripping the steering wheel hard until the urge passes. Different competing behavioral responses can be designated for different situations.
In addition, many people with impulses to pull find learning relaxation techniques to be very helpful. Techniques such as breathing retraining and progressive muscle relaxation often help to control the distressing emotions and general stress level that led to the pulling in the first place. When real stressors exist, it is often helpful to engage in problem solving techniques to explore additional ways of better coping with these life stressors. In addition, using techniques to analyze daily thoughts and stresses are often a very helpful adjunct to habit reversal - these techniques help people better deal with the stresses of life so that they are less likely to resort to pulling to help relieve any stresses that occur in the future.
In addition, it is often helpful for people to write a list of all the ways in which hair pulling has caused them any inconvenience or embarrassment and to keep this list with them. Many people also find that rewards help to keep them motivated with treatment. First, rewards are given for successfully reducing and then eliminating hair pulling. It is often easier to provide rewards to children who pull their hair, since parents have more control over incentives like magazines, gum, video games, etc. For adults, it is slightly more difficult to control rewards; however, many adults also find it helpful to agree to treat themselves to a specific item or activity for their work in reducing or eliminating pulling.
The following books were used as references for some of the information contained in this website. They are also fantastic reference materials for those who would like to learn more about anxiety disorders and other related problems.
Barlow, D.H. (1993). Clinical handbook of psychological disorders, second edition. Guilford Press, New York.
Craske, M. (1999). Anxiety disorders: Psychological approaches to theory and treatment. Westview Press, Boulder, Colorado.
March, J.S. (1995). Anxiety disorders in children and adolescents. Gilford Press, New York.
Penzel, F. (2003). The hair-pulling problem: A complete guide to trichotillomania. Oxford University Press, New York.
Phillips, K.A. (1986). The broken mirror: Understanding and treating body dysmorphic disorder. Oxford University Press, New York.
If your child has an anxiety disorder, the most important piece of advice is: Don't blame yourself and don't blame your child. Certainly no one would ever want these symptoms or wish them on someone they love. Anxiety disorders can be especially frustrating if they are accompanied by a lot of avoidance or other “safety“ behaviors (e.g., having a parent or other safely object with them in feared situations, compulsions, etc.). Please try to be patient with your child and remember...if it were so easy to “just stop“ these frustrating behaviors, it would have already happened. Tell your child that you love them despite any anxiety problems. Let them know that even though they may have some worries that don't make sense or some “bad habits,“ they are not a bad person.
It is also often beneficial to educate your child a bit about the problem so that they no longer feel so alone or “crazy“. This discussion should be tailored to your child's age, developmental level, and their concerns or insight about the problem itself. For example, some children with OCD may think that others are just “gross“ for not also washing their hands 10 times before leaving the bathroom; sometimes, children with trichotillomania do not seem to care about the effects of hair pulling on their appearance. In addition, sometimes children may engage in some anxiety related behaviors with only minimal awareness (because these behaviors have become so automatic), so they may not honestly know what behaviors you are referring to (or not be aware of their frequency).
Absolutely. Frequently, those with anxiety disorders alter their lifestyles and those of loved ones due to the “rules“ that their anxiety disorder makes them adhere to. These lifestyle alterations can run the gamut from mild to very severe. For example, a child with a specific phobia of dogs may insist that the family does not go to any parties at people's houses if they own a dog (i.e., relatively minimal life interference), but a child with severe checking OCD may insist that his family return home twice every time they leave the house to check that the front door is really locked (i.e., severe life interference). Thus, even though family members may not share or even understand the fears that are present, they conform to the “rules“ made by the anxiety disorder so that their loved one is not distressed. It is not uncommon for children to become very upset, cry, or have a tantrum if these “rules“ are disregarded.
One of the most common ways that anxiety disorders are identified in children is due to a change in their previous functioning. It is not uncommon for children with anxiety disorders to begin avoiding certain activities or contact with particular objects/people due to their fears. These indicators are often confusing to parents because they frequently involve things that their child formerly enjoyed (such as going to the beach or a playground). Some children will state their fears, but it is probably more common for children to instead make up excuses like “I'm tired“ or “I don't like doing that anymore“ rather than reveal that they are frightened to do certain things or go to specific places. For certain anxiety disorders, such as OCD, the number of avoided things often grows over time and symptoms worsen. Thus, time formerly spent having fun with family and friends is now spent engaging in anxiety related behaviors (e.g., dwelling on the worry, compulsions) or in avoiding things that are feared.
Typically the same treatments are used for children as are used with adults -- with some slight differences. For example, the disorders are explained in ways that they can better understand and a reward system is usually implemented for all their hard work in attempting therapy assignments. Reward systems tend to be especially helpful in keeping younger children on-track, given that the results of therapy are usually not seen for several weeks and children have a tendency to easily give up if they see no immediate benefit. Older children and adolescents may see standard reward systems as being “treated like a baby,“ so they frequently prefer that treatment be conducted in the same way as it is administered with adults or that monetary incentives are instead given.
The most essential element to successful treatment is that the child is self-motivated to change these anxiety related behaviors - and they are not solely in treatment because of parental pressure.
The role of family members usually varies depending on the age of the child. For younger children, more parental involvement is usually necessary (in part because children sometimes have a harder time reporting accurately on their symptoms, therapy assignments, and progress). Adolescents usually prefer to keep their sessions more private and only periodic check-ins with parents are usually implemented.
It is usually very beneficial for the family to have some role in treatment so that they can be further educated about the anxiety disorder and understand the sometimes frustrating symptoms that accompany them. The degree of family involvement usually depends on the child/adolescent and on the family itself. For some families, taking a step back and letting your child take the reins (with the help of their psychologist) in overcoming their symptoms is most helpful.
For some families, it may be beneficial for the parents to know about the treatment plan that has been designed by the psychologist. This is frequently helpful because then they will know where to look for successes and where to not yet expect improvements (until later). If family members are engaged in “helping“ their child with any anxiety related behaviors (e.g., compulsions), they can also learn how to gradually separate themselves from these fear-related behaviors. The biggest role that the family can play is by helping their child to implement the weekly goals that have been set between their child and the psychologist. Because each family is very different and has its own specific needs, you will have to work together with your psychologist to decide how you can best help your family member with their anxiety disorder.
If your child has an anxiety disorder, the most important piece of advice is: Don't blame yourself and don't blame your child. Certainly no one would ever want these symptoms or wish them on someone they love. Anxiety disorders can be especially frustrating if they are accompanied by a lot of avoidance or other “safety“ behaviors (e.g., having a parent or other safely object with them in feared situations, compulsions, etc.). Please try to be patient with your child and remember...if it were so easy to “just stop“ these frustrating behaviors, it would have already happened. Tell your child that you love them despite any anxiety problems. Let them know that even though they may have some worries that don't make sense or some “bad habits,“ they are not a bad person.
It is also often beneficial to educate your child a bit about the problem so that they no longer feel so alone or “crazy“. This discussion should be tailored to your child's age, developmental level, and their concerns or insight about the problem itself. For example, some children with OCD may think that others are just “gross“ for not also washing their hands 10 times before leaving the bathroom; sometimes, children with trichotillomania do not seem to care about the effects of hair pulling on their appearance. In addition, sometimes children may engage in some anxiety related behaviors with only minimal awareness (because these behaviors have become so automatic), so they may not honestly know what behaviors you are referring to (or not be aware of their frequency).
Absolutely. Frequently, those with anxiety disorders alter their lifestyles and those of loved ones due to the “rules“ that their anxiety disorder makes them adhere to. These lifestyle alterations can run the gamut from mild to very severe. For example, a child with a specific phobia of dogs may insist that the family does not go to any parties at people's houses if they own a dog (i.e., relatively minimal life interference), but a child with severe checking OCD may insist that his family return home twice every time they leave the house to check that the front door is really locked (i.e., severe life interference). Thus, even though family members may not share or even understand the fears that are present, they conform to the “rules“ made by the anxiety disorder so that their loved one is not distressed. It is not uncommon for children to become very upset, cry, or have a tantrum if these “rules“ are disregarded.
One of the most common ways that anxiety disorders are identified in children is due to a change in their previous functioning. It is not uncommon for children with anxiety disorders to begin avoiding certain activities or contact with particular objects/people due to their fears. These indicators are often confusing to parents because they frequently involve things that their child formerly enjoyed (such as going to the beach or a playground). Some children will state their fears, but it is probably more common for children to instead make up excuses like “I'm tired“ or “I don't like doing that anymore“ rather than reveal that they are frightened to do certain things or go to specific places. For certain anxiety disorders, such as OCD, the number of avoided things often grows over time and symptoms worsen. Thus, time formerly spent having fun with family and friends is now spent engaging in anxiety related behaviors (e.g., dwelling on the worry, compulsions) or in avoiding things that are feared.
Typically the same treatments are used for children as are used with adults -- with some slight differences. For example, the disorders are explained in ways that they can better understand and a reward system is usually implemented for all their hard work in attempting therapy assignments. Reward systems tend to be especially helpful in keeping younger children on-track, given that the results of therapy are usually not seen for several weeks and children have a tendency to easily give up if they see no immediate benefit. Older children and adolescents may see standard reward systems as being “treated like a baby,“ so they frequently prefer that treatment be conducted in the same way as it is administered with adults or that monetary incentives are instead given.
The most essential element to successful treatment is that the child is self-motivated to change these anxiety related behaviors - and they are not solely in treatment because of parental pressure.
The role of family members usually varies depending on the age of the child. For younger children, more parental involvement is usually necessary (in part because children sometimes have a harder time reporting accurately on their symptoms, therapy assignments, and progress). Adolescents usually prefer to keep their sessions more private and only periodic check-ins with parents are usually implemented.
It is usually very beneficial for the family to have some role in treatment so that they can be further educated about the anxiety disorder and understand the sometimes frustrating symptoms that accompany them. The degree of family involvement usually depends on the child/adolescent and on the family itself. For some families, taking a step back and letting your child take the reins (with the help of their psychologist) in overcoming their symptoms is most helpful.
For some families, it may be beneficial for the parents to know about the treatment plan that has been designed by the psychologist. This is frequently helpful because then they will know where to look for successes and where to not yet expect improvements (until later). If family members are engaged in “helping“ their child with any anxiety related behaviors (e.g., compulsions), they can also learn how to gradually separate themselves from these fear-related behaviors. The biggest role that the family can play is by helping their child to implement the weekly goals that have been set between their child and the psychologist. Because each family is very different and has its own specific needs, you will have to work together with your psychologist to decide how you can best help your family member with their anxiety disorder.